The old saying goes that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. In some cases, this seems more than true, as a man and a woman often want different things from each other in the same relationship. A few things will always overlap, like love, loyalty, and respect, but even so, they may be given and received in different ways. What a woman wants from a man can vary slightly from one woman to the next, but here are 10 things that almost every woman looks for in a man.
1. A woman wants a man she can count on.
Actions have always spoken louder than words, and that’s how it will continue to be. Women are communicators, and they cannot stand when a man doesn’t stick to his word. Women who are looking for a long-term partner are looking for stability. They want a man that they can count on, who does what he says he’s going to do and is reliable. Flakiness is one of my pet peeves, combine this with a guy I’m interested in and he’ll quickly become a guy I can’t stand. The last time I was single, I remember very clearly when I met a guy I was into. He told me that he would contact me by the weekend to make plans. Sounds good so far, right? By Friday night, though, I still hadn’t heard from him, so you can bet your bottom dollar I was ready to eliminate all possibilities of us ever dating. He ended up messaging me halfway through Saturday without a valid excuse which was enough to show me he wasn’t reliable. I took it as a red flag and moved on.
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2. A woman wants a man who pays attention.
Being attentive is a crucial quality that women often seek in a partner. It goes beyond just being present physically; it involves active listening, showing genuine interest, and being responsive to your partner’s needs and emotions. When a man pays attention, he demonstrates that he values his woman and her experiences. This nurtures their connection. On the other hand, a lack of attention can leave a woman feeling neglected and unimportant, leading to frustration and potential strain in the relationship. Attention is a powerful gesture that can make a woman feel seen, understood, and cherished. And, come on, doesn’t that sound nice?
3. A woman wants a proactive man.
Nobody likes a couch potato with no ambition. What women want is a guy who takes the initiative, who doesn’t wait around for life to happen to him but instead takes life by the reigns and moves towards his goals. This man should seize opportunities, whether it’s planning a surprise date night or taking charge of household chores without being asked (yes, guys, it is sexy to vacuum). We’re not asking for a superhero who can predict the future, but a little proactive effort goes a long way. Show us that you’re willing to go the extra mile, and you might even get a special reward like extra brownie points or a surprise gift or a sweet gesture. Guys, don’t be shy – be proactive and show your lady that you’re not just a passenger; you’re her co-pilot.
4. A woman wants a man who speaks with respect.
Verbal jabs and dismissive comments can be real mood killers. Women appreciate a partner who knows how to communicate in a way that uplifts and values their thoughts and emotions. Picture this: she’s discussing her latest career achievements, excitedly sharing her accomplishments. Instead of receiving a dismissive remark like, “Oh, that’s cute,” imagine her hearing a supportive response such as, “Wow, that’s amazing! I’m so proud of you for all your hard work paying off.” See the difference? Respectful communication can transform ordinary moments into empowering experiences. It creates an atmosphere where both partners feel heard, appreciated, and understood. Speaking of appreciation, you know I appreciate you on this channel, especially if you like the video and subscribe to show your support!
5. A woman wants a man who knows what he’s feeling.
This isn’t about expecting someone to be an emotional expert or a mind reader, but rather, it’s about finding that connection with someone who understands and embraces their own emotions. There’s something undeniably attractive about a man who can navigate his feelings without being embarrassed or ignoring them altogether. It’s not about having all the answers, but about the willingness to explore how you feel, why, and to share that with your partner. This opens up communication to another level and allows any relationship to level up in response.
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6. A woman wants a man who acts as her partner, not her son.
When a woman wants to teach someone to be responsible and independent, she’ll have a child, not find a boyfriend. Women want men who are adults not only on paper but in their day-to-day responsibilities. No dirty underwear on the floor, crusty dishes in the sink, or helplessness when it comes to what to eat for dinner. The days of a girlfriend as mommy are over. Men are expected to be just as independent and house-intelligent as their partner, no ifs, ands, or buts about it.
7. A woman wants a man she can trust.
When a woman is looking for a partner, she wants someone she can rely on and trust completely. Apart from making sure her man isn’t going around behind her back, it also allows for a supportive environment. Last year I was facing a very big career decision and it was a fork in the road, to put it simply. Luckily, I had a trustworthy man in my life, so I knew I could talk to him openly and honestly without worrying about being judged or betrayed. Having that kind of support gave me the confidence to pursue the right choice without any doubts. Trust is one of the pillars of authenticity, so if she can trust him, she can be her authentic self with him.
8. A woman wants a man she can admire.
A woman needs to be with someone who inspires her and earns her respect. When a woman finds a man who possesses qualities like intelligence, ambition, kindness, or integrity, she can look up to him and be proud of the man she is with. A man can make a woman proud through his achievements, determination, or the way he treats others. This will fuel a woman’s motivation to be the best version of herself. Having a man that she admires also strengthens their bond as she better values the person he is, both as a partner and as an individual.
9. A woman wants a man she can lean on.
It’s natural to look for a partner who provides a strong and supportive presence. I mean, when you’re going through a tough time, do you want someone to tell you to toughen up or do you want someone to comfort you and help you get tougher through love? When faced with challenges, a woman wants to know that she can rely on her man for emotional support. By the way, we have a related video called “If a Girl Tells You About Her Personal Life” that could help guide you in such a situation. Having a man she can lean on means having someone who listens attentively, offers a shoulder to cry on, and provides comfort and reassurance during difficult times. A woman wants a man who is willing to be there for her, offering guidance, strength, and encouragement. When she can lean on her man, she feels a sense of security and trust, knowing that they are in it together, ready to face whatever life throws their way.
10. A woman wants a man she can share her happiness with.
It’s not just about finding someone who can be there during difficult times, but also someone who genuinely celebrates successes and joys. A woman wants a guy who can wholeheartedly join in laughter, smiles, and enthusiasm. She wants someone who she can crack up with, cuddle with, achieve big things with, and everything in between. It’s called partnership for a reason.
Conclusion:
Meeting a woman’s expectations isn’t as complicated as some make it seem. Any man striving to be the best version of himself is sure to find a woman doing the same, and that’s a great formula for a solid and progressing relationship. You’ll surely find the one for you soon!