Signs She Wants A Serious Relationship With You
So, are you guys dating, just hanging out, or just friends? Either way, once in a while you probably question yourself to see if she wants something more serious. If that’s the case, I gotchu. You know sometimes in the beginning you could be blinded by your hormones. I know, I know, I understand that. That’s why I’m going to go over some signs to tell you if she wants something serious or not. If you have commitment issues then I guess you could just watch this for entertainment purpose. There’s a quick story at the end if you like hearing my stories. So yeah…
1. She surprises you
“Babe I’m pregnant.” Haha imagine the look on your face if she tells you that. I get a lot of 18 to 24-year-old watching this so I think I’m fine. Unless you’re underage using your parents account. I question that. But anyways, note that if she surprises you with meaningful gifts there’s something more to it. Or those random visits. Yeah, she’s just really checking up on you. But nevertheless, it’s a good indicator that she wants something more serious.
2. She opens up to you
She will start to get emotional with you. Talking about her past. The ups and downs she has been through. If she talks about her past relationship, then you know it’s the real deal because it shows that she trusts you. Plus, she won’t be shy about answering any of your questions. She’s like an open book. But please don’t straight up ask her if she likes you or not. I mean if you have to ask, then she probably does. So, just go in for the kill when you think you’re ready. That’s one of the signs she wants a serious relationship with you.
3. Her friends tease you
Asking someone out is scary. So, to lessen the blow and not be rejected up front, she calls in for backup which are her friends. If she wasn’t serious, then she wouldn’t have said a word to her friends to begin with. Doing so is just an indirect way to get a feeler for you. Plus, if she’s letting her friends know that she likes you, then it’s most likely serious.
4. You meet the family
If she takes you to a family function such as birthday event, or a Christmas dinner, it’s a pretty big deal. Granted you guys could just be an old childhood friend and that’s totally normal and fine, but like if you’ve only known each other for a few years, that could also be a sign that she wants something serious. She could just low-key be trying to get the family’s approval first. Haha
5. She’s interested to meet your family and friends
In case you passed on meeting her parents. She could just meet your family and friends, instead. It’s almost the same thing, right? It’s going to happen sooner or later, so why not just get it over with. She wants to see if they like her and whether if it’s going to be a smooth sail or a rocky one to start when going into a relationship.
6. She talks about the future
Oooo The F word isn’t that scary? For some guys it will totally scare the jelly beans out of them. At the end of the day, the girl wants a future. If she wasn’t interested, then she probably won’t bring it up. But she definitely wants to get a glimpse of how you guys will work things out together in the future. If she has plan already and you don’t…Yeah that could be a problem.
7. She spends a lot of time with you
At this point you could probably get a room already. I’m kidding. But if she spends her free time with you, let’s just say she spends every weekend with you, it’s more than likely that she likes you. I mean, why would someone want to spend time with another person that they don’t like. Take some time to think about that for a bit.
8. She gets rid of her dating apps
Okay this is mostly for older females. Nowadays it’s not that bad using dating apps to find people. I mean, I’ve used it. I have an app (*cough 5 apps) installed. I mean you gotta do what you gotta do. I don’t use it often because you know life could get busy. I mean I’m thankful of having my subscribers watch my stuff already. Who needs a girl, when you have subscribers, right? Haha Maybe one day. Yeah, I know, I’m getting off topic. But just know that if you don’t see any dating apps on her phone or that her profile is gone. She probably wants to be serious with you. You’re special to her.
9. She takes really good care of you
You’re sick, no worries she got you cover. She’ll either make you food or go out to get food for you. You’re busy and have a few more errands to do. Don’t worry, she’ll do them for you. You don’t have any money to pay the bills, she gotchu. Wait wait wait wait. I need one of those. If she does things willingly for you and you never asked for it, you probably caught a good girl. At this point, I see no reason why you wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with her.
10. She remembers the little things
This is also a good indictor to show that she wants to be serious with you or she just has a photographic memory. If she remembers things about you, then you know that she’s paying attention to you. If you’re sad and she remembers the things to make you happy, perhaps there’s something more to it. Like wanting to be with you. Sometimes the small detail is what makes it count. If you’re interested to know more, here’s 10 signs she likes you but is hiding it.
Quick Story:
Okay a quick story. So, I was on a dating app. I thought she was pretty cute and we kind of have similar interest as each other. So, I mean why not grab dinner or something, right? So, I did. Dinner was great, conversation was good. Overall, I gave it an 8/10. I even hit first base and got a kiss. Not bad right? Now second date was a total flop. I got scared when she started talking about babies and marriage. I mean I’m only in my 20s. I can’t even take care of a fake doll. I’m so sorry Maddie if you’re watching this, I legit thought she could do the splits, I didn’t mean to break its leg.
But yeah, so how am I supposed to take care of a real kid. So yeah, if you’re still young, try to keep the baby and marriage topic out of the picture on the first few dates. That’s all I have byeee. See you next week. So that’s 10 signs she wants a serious relationship with you.