Signs He Loves You deeply (15 Signs)
So you have a boyfriend or a partner but you’re having doubts whether he loves you. Yes, I know it’s hard to understand guys sometimes. But the way he behaves or act is a good indicator to know what he is thinking. You can find a player in this world and he is short lived. He will do a few things or say a few things to get you attached and once he does, he will break your heart. Make sure you don’t get attached so quickly and know that actions speak louder than words. Players can casually say the word “love” but it’s empty emotions. True love develops over time. Not in a few months. With that being said here are 15 signs to know if he truly loves you.
1. He’s honest and transparent
The key of a long lasting relationship is honesty. If he is serious about you, he will tell you everything. Sometimes you won’t like what you hear but at least he is telling you beforehand and being honest with you. Lying will just complicate things and once you complied a ton of lies, one day, it’ll pop and put an end to your relationship.
2. He spoils you
Who doesn’t like getting a spa or a new phone? After a long frustrating day at work would you like to see your boyfriend playing video games or actually pampering you with a massage and cooking dinner for you? The former doesn’t sound like true love. If he occasionally treats you well and pampers you, you know he’s in love and wants you to feel like a princess that you are.
3. He cuts off flings and exes
This might be excessive but this is a strong indicator that he is deeply in love with you. If he is willing to forget his old past, he is committed to start a future with you. He will make sure that you are the only person he will see and avoid those who approach him. This is one of the common signs to show you that he loves you deeply.
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4. He does things your way
If you ask him to keep the house clean or to be a little more organize and he does it. Then he knows that those minor things are important to you. He might complain at first but he will do it because you are more important to him than not to wash a few dishes in the sink and having a fight over it.
5. He wants an exclusive relationship
Generally not a lot of guys will explicitly say it because it’s usually implied when dating. But to make sure he locks it in with you, he will tell you that he wants an exclusive relationship with you because you are the one for him.
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6. He treats you like a lady
Does your man respect you? Does he carry things for you when going out? Does he pull out the chair for you? What about opening doors for you? If he does, he’s probably the gentlemen you’re looking for. Those are just the basic things a gentleman would do for his lady. Now ladies, don’t think he’s some kind of servant, he is not. He understands that ladies should be treated with respect. In return you should also treat him with respect too. Without respect your relationship will not last.
7. He is ready for commitment
If he proposes to you, that’s obviously a sign that he loves you but if he talks to you about the future with you, then that’s an indicator he is ready for you. He wants to see if you are ready for commitment so he doesn’t scare you or make the wrong move. He will pop the question when he feels like you are ready.
8. He satisfies you in bed
You know that saying happy wife, happy life. That is true. Love can be express in bed. If he is able to give you multiple orgasms, then he actually wants to give you all the attention that you deserve. He won’t finish until you’re finish. Now that’s true love.
9. You’ve met his family and friends
He will invite you to meet his family and friends if he loves you. At this point, he is telling you that you are very important to him. Not a lot of guys will take the next step to invite a girl over a family dinner if you’re not special. In addition, he is maybe secretly telling you he is ready for commitment.
10. He is supportive of you
He stands behind you and supports your dreams and goals. You might have big dreams or goals that people think are crazy, but your partner won’t. He will support you every moment of it until you have reached it. He realizes that those dreams or goals are important to you and will never think its impossible as long as he loves you. This is one of the best signs to show that he loves you deeply.
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11. He is there for you and listens to you
Whether you’re having minor or major problems he is always there for you. He will listen to you and act upon it. Sometimes guys are not great listeners. It goes in one ear and out the other. But if he listens to you and takes action afterwards, then he is a keeper. Not a lot of guys will be able to do that. Most guys will only care for themselves and talk about themselves. If you notice that about him, then you should question the future about him. A guy who is deeply in love with you will always be with you in your low points and high points in life. But make sure to communicate it across to him.
12. He goes out of his way to make you laugh
He will do anything to make you laugh if you’re having a bad day. He won’t let you be sad because seeing you sad will break his heart. Seeing you happy will make him happy. If he continues non-stop to put a smile on your face, it’s a sign that he loves you.
13. He gives you surprises
Would a one-week trip to Hawaii be a surprise? What about putting a surprise holiday party with your family and best friends? The fact that he is taking the time to plan these surprises means that he loves you. Guys are not always that thoughtful and they can sometimes be boring. What he is trying to do is keep a long lasting relationship with you by sparking it up with surprising once in a while because it will make you feel like being with him never gets old and boring.
14. He doesn’t break promises with you
A true lover will keep his promise. I’m not talking about those small everyday promises when he says he will be back home at 5pm after work and he arrives at 5:10pm. I talking about bigger promises like taking vacations together or buying a house together. If he loves you, he will not hurt the person he loves by lying or giving them false hope.
15. He loves you for you
He does not complain about your style. He does not complain about what you do. He does not tell you to dress up because at the end of the day he loves you. If you go out without dressing up or putting makeup, you might not look as attractive to others but he is attracted to you and that’s what it all matters. No matter what your interest are or what you do, he loves you because that is what makes you, you. This is one of the most important signs that he loves you deeply.
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After watching this and you notice he’s doing most of the things listed here, then you can bet that he loves you. You might have smile at a few things on this list because you know its true. If you want to keep him forever, make sure you reciprocate once in a while so he can feel that you feel the same way about him as well. So there you have it 15 signs he loves you deeply.