Signs A Shy Girl Likes You
Shy girls can be very mysterious and hard to tell if she is interested in you, or simply just shy overall, or even flat out not interested. You on the other hand, is starting to question it because that’s why you’re here, right? I’ve ask around for you and talked to multiple shy girls and gather some insight on how they think, act, and behave so you don’t have to do the work. Just know that I care about all my subscribers and want you guys to have a happy and lasting relationship. That’s why I reply back to you guys and give you my best advice on here. So, with that being said, here’s 15 signs a shy girl likes you.
1. She compliments you
This is actually a big sign especially when it comes to a shy girl. She is obviously into you if she can gather the courage to actually compliment you. She is trying to be friendly and get your attention. It also shows that she is paying attention to the small details about you and the changes you make in your life, like how you dress or how you look overall.
2. She smiles at you
While some girls smile just to be friendly, it could also be an indicator that she likes you. In this case, a shy girl may not really have the confidence to make a move, but you can tell if she is always smiling when you’re around. To avoid getting the wrong impression that she’s just friendly, it is best if you paid attention to her reactions when she is around with other people. Does she smile often towards others or is it only when you are nearby? This is what will determine her interest in you.
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3. Look out for eye contact
Eye contact usually portrays interest. A shy girl will most certainly find herself gazing your way if she has a crush on you. More often than not, you may catch her stealing glances at you and then turn away when she sees that you have notice her. Also, when the two of you are talking, you will notice that she maintains direct eye contact with you. It might look creepy but hey the girl likes you and she’s interested, so let it be. A girl may be shy but she will not be able to resist on keeping her eyes on the guy she likes. That’s one of the major signs a shy girl likes you.
4. She finds all your jokes funny
Your friends may find your jokes to be corny or lame but there will be that one girl who is always laughing at your jokes. Believe it or not, that girl probably likes you and is trying to show her interest in you through her laughter. She simply cannot help it but giggle at every joke you make even those that doesn’t seem to be funny at all. As a matter of fact, it is proven that people tend to find those that they are into to be more funny and hilarious than they could actually are. Therefore, if you want to know if an introverted girl is attracted to you, look out for this sign.
5. Changes in her appearance
When a girl wants a specific guy to notice her, she will change her appearance and this mostly includes dressing up. A girl will be slightly more concerned about her looks than she typically is so that she can impress the guy she likes. You will notice that she will totally opt out of her typical normal outfit into something that’s more fresh whenever you are around or if you happen to hang out with her. Another thing is that she may start putting on makeup. Shy people like to keep a low profile, and that’s why when a shy girl goes through the trouble of wearing makeup, just to look attractive for you, it is a good sign that she likes you.
6. She talks to everyone else but ignores you
It’s a hard sign to tell but I need to throw it out there so you guys know. This might be ironic but when a shy girl has a crush on you, she will find it easier and much more comfortable to talk to other people and not you. For instance, if you are in the group, she will tend to be awfully quiet and shy. On the other hand, when you are not around her, she seems to be much more talkative with the others. This is probably because she feels nervous and would rather just ignore or avoid you altogether. Another reason why she will keep her distance from you is that she simply is afraid of rejection.
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7. She bumps into you almost everywhere
You could be wondering if a girl is stalking you at this point because you see her almost everywhere. She may have planned or may not have planned it out but she might have an idea where you usually hang out so she can be there first and make it seem likes it natural. A shy girl will not have the courage to approach and interact with you, but she will try to create plenty of opportunities for you to bump into each other with the hopes that there is a chance you might notice her and for you to say something.
8. Accidentally makes physical contact
It’s typical of people to make physical contact with those they are attracted to. Since a shy girl will not directly initiate physical contact with you, she will find a way to accidentally or indirectly do so. It could be that she keeps bumping into you in a crowded hall or her hands always brush against yours whenever you are working together, be it for school or for work. This is definitely a good indicator that she is into you. Yet, you can say that it could be a coincidence, but is it really a coincident when she is doing that to you every week? I’ll let you figure that one out.
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9. Her tone of voice changes
Typically, there is a change in tone when a shy girl is talking to her crush. The tone of her voice can range from light and happy to something that is formal, yet shocked. It’s actually something that happens subconsciously because she can be really cute and sweet with you or she is in total shock and trying to remain cool, hence the formal tone. A shy girl could also be pretty loud when she is with her friends but whenever you are around, she can go into a shy quiet mode. To test this, watch how she reacts and talk to other people and notice if there is any difference in her tone.
10. She plays with her hair
When it comes to girls playing with their hair, it could mean three things. She is either nervous, flirting with you, or bored. Well, you have a 2 out of 3 shot of winning when you see this sign. This mostly apply to girls who have long hair. Girls with short girl don’t have much length to play around so this sign might be out of the picture if you’re trying to see if a girl who has short hair. So, if you approach her and she is playfully twirling her hair with her finger. It’s probably a good sign that she is interested.
11. Her friends act differently when you pass by
This is another huge hint that a shy girl has a crush on you. Her friends probably know about it and will either tease you or tease her when you stroll past them. They may even suddenly be quiet when you approach the group because they might have been talking about you. The best way to find out if this is true is to simply ask one of her friends and try to crack this mysterious case of whether the girl likes you or not.
12. Too shy to initiate a conversation
Most likely, a shy girl won’t be the first one to start up a conversation. This is because she may not really know what to say or afraid of saying something wrong. That’s why she would rather wait for you to initiate the conversation. When you start the conversation, you will notice that she will enjoy it and pay attention to you. As a matter of fact, the both of you can go on talking for hours if you both click. This only proves that she wanted to talk to you but just didn’t have the courage to make the first move. So of course, for you, don’t be shy to talk to the girl. It’s one of the common signs a shy girl likes you.
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13. Your friends become her friends
Since she likes you but is too shy to express her feelings to you, she will find a way to be closer to you. What better way is there for her to be around you than establishing friendship with your friends? She may even be trying to get an opportunity to hang out with you without making it so obvious that she is interested in you. Besides, if your friends like being around her, chances are you will like her too and this will work out in her favor.
14. She follows you on social media
This is one of the tactics use by a shy girl. She does this so you can take note of her presence, online. She will follow you and add you as a friend. In addition, she will probably comment and like your post so that when you check your social media accounts, her name pops up and you will notice her more. She low key is stalking you at this point, but in a subtle way so it’s not too creepy. I mean sometimes guys can be creepy but when girls do it, it’s okay apparently. Haha. The frequent likes and comment on your social media pages are a strong indicator that she secretly likes you and is probably trying to make you realize it online without taking too much risk.
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15. She will tell you if you asked her
An introverted girl will possibly not walk up to you and tell you that she likes you like the way a confident girl would do. She will keep her feelings to herself and only give you some hints like the ones I have mentioned above. Therefore, when you notice that she has an interest in you why not take the initiative to invite her out for a cup of coffee and start to build a connection first. Chances are if she is truly into you, she won’t hesitate to take that opportunity to make it known, but obviously let her know that you are somewhat interested in her as well before asking. While it may be difficult to know for sure if she is attracted to you, this is one of the sure ways to find out.
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Overall, of course not all shy girls will exhibit these behaviors. You will need to pay close attention to these signs. In addition, her body language can tell you a lot about her interest. I made an old video about that so you can check it out if you want. Link is in the description. So, hey, she might be one of the greatest mystery book you’ll ever read. Or you can just simply gather the confidence and courage and take her out on an actual date. So there you have it 15 signs a shy girl likes you.