1. Do you dread coming home to your partner?
2. Do you feel like you do most of the housework?
3. Have you forgotten the last time you laughed together?
4. Do they neglect spending time with you?
5. Are you only with them because of a separate reason? (Kids, dog, house, etc.)
6. Do they make you feel bad about yourself?
7. Is there tension between your respective families? (AKA with the in-laws)
8. Do they threaten to leave the relationship?
9. Are they too comfortable in the relationship?
10. Have they changed for the worst since the beginning of your relationship?
11. Do they stay out of the house more than in?
12. Does their work come before you?
13. Are you ignoring your gut feelings about the relationship?
14. Are you doubtful/against getting help? (e.g., therapy)
15. Are all of your interests separate?
16. Do you prefer talking with friends over your partner?
17. Do your friends/family suggest ending the marriage?
18. Have you stopped/significantly decreased your sex life?
19. Do you find that you don’t have anything to say to each other?
21. Do you feel controlled by your partner?
22. Do you daydream about a life without your partner?
23. Have you stopped fighting, but without resolutions?
24. Have either of you cheated?
26. Do you feel an emotional connection to someone else?
27. Do you feel alone, even when you are together?
28. Is your relationship full of criticism?
29. Do either of you emotionally shut-down during conversation/discussions?
30. Have you stopped being each other’s priority?
