1. Do they ditch your plans?
2. Do they bring up your past mistakes?
3. Do they gaslight you? (saying you make things up)
4. Do they constantly block and unblock you?
5. Are they inconsiderate of your feelings?
7. Do they talk about you behind your back?
9. Do they make plans without you?
12. Do they offer insincere apologies?
13. Do they hide things from you?
14. Do they ignore (or “forget”) things you say?
15. Are they close-minded/stubborn?
16. Do they tell you you’re overreacting or acting crazy?
17. Do they look for validation in others?
18. Do they act entitled?
19. Are they over-jealous?
20. Do they blame others for their problems?
21. Do they hold a grudge?
22. Do others warn you to be careful around them?
23. Do they compare you to others?
24. Do they have negative self-talk?
25. Do they take things personally?
26. Do they leave you hanging mid-conversation?
27. Do they stalk your social media?
28. Are they manipulative?
29. Do they make you feel guilty?
30. Do they bring you down?
