Is He Losing Interest In Me

Is He Losing Interest In Me

So, you’ve questioned yourself, “Is he losing interest in me?” You’ve known this guy for quite some time, now. You guys have been texting and talking and things were going great at first but as the days have gone by, you’ve been getting this weird distant vibe from him. It seems like he’s slowly fading away. Your gut feeling is probably saying he’s not interested in you, but you’re in denial. If that’s the case, let’s go over 10 of the common signs that he is losing interest in you.

1. He makes excuses to avoid you

Typically, these excuses are usually saying that he’s busy and doesn’t have time for you. Granted he might be telling the truth and saying he’s actually busy but if he keeps making excuses after excuses and avoiding you, it’s probably a sign that he’s losing interest because in the beginning he would do everything to talk or hang out with you, now he’s not even making any effort to do so. No matter how busy someone is they’ll find time for you if they are interested.

2. He’s not talking to you how he used to

In the beginning, you guys would talk and talk and ask questions, right? Basically, wanting to know everything about you. Now, he seems kind of bored of it. That’s normal for most relationship because you guys would end up knowing so much about each other. The real problem comes into play is when he starts being a dick towards you, not listening to you talk and not remembering the things you tell him. If that’s the case, he’s interest level has significantly dropped.

3. He becomes bad at texting

He used to reply back to you fairly quick and now you have to wait hours to even get a text back. And when you do, you’re greeted by a one-word response or that dreadful one-letter response that we all hate after writing a paragraph. ‘K.’ Not even capitalized, just a low case ‘k.’ how emotionless is that. But it’s okay. Now you know. It’s time to leave him on read and let him go.

4. He’s not taking any initiative

If you notice he’s not texting you first or calling you first, that’s a sign that something is up with him. To top it off, if he is not planning to do things with you and taking action to be cute and hang out together that’s another telltale sign that he is not investing his time with you and he might not even care. The relationship should be balance where you both are taking turns planning or planning things together. It shouldn’t be one sided.

5. He’s acting rude around you

If he’s being disrespectful with you and it’s not in a teasing or a joking way, it’s a clear sign that he’s not interested. Easily getting annoyed over things and constantly putting you down is not a good sign. It’s about time to just drop him because you don’t want someone who is being disrespectful, no matter how great he was in the beginning. That’ll just add stress to your life.

6. He flirts with other people

This is assuming you guys both pass the stage of knowing each other so he’s not going to use that tactic to make you jealous. But instead he’s trying to push you away. He’s no longer interested and wants you to get the hint so he doesn’t have to tell you straight up that he’s not interested anymore. He’s trying to get you mad so you can mentally dump him.

7. He’s ghosting you

This means he’s not answering your text or calls. It’s definitely a clear sign that he’s not interested but some people might be in denial and say he’s probably busy. But homie, if he hasn’t messaged or reached out to you for more than one month, he’s probably with someone else already or dead, and I highly doubt that he’s dead.

8. He’s not laughing or smiling anymore with you

Initially, you both were adorable together, laughing and happy all the time. And it’s because most relationship starts out like that. Getting to know someone is fun and interesting, but as the relationship goes on, certain elements starts to fade away. The spark might no longer be there anymore. And if you notice he hasn’t been very happy or smiling around you for the past few weeks, he’s probably losing interest.

9. He argues a lot with you

Now it seems like he wants everything to go his way. He blames you for the problems and guilt trips you for the things you’ve done or didn’t do. If that’s the case, you’re better off letting him go so you won’t have to be in that hostile environment. To be honest, you don’t need a guy acting like that all the time. That dude might have some serious anger issue as well.

10. He friend zones you

If you both are ever talking or texting and he slips in the word “bro,” or “bruh.” That’s a good sign to tell that you’re in the friend zone. Or if he introduces you to others as “just friends” or even worst a sibling from another mother. Yeah… he’s not seeing you as a potential partner. But it’s okay. Remember that there are plenty of other fishes out in this sea who aren’t your brother and sister. So, feel free to give it some time and swim around and browse the sea, you’ll be surprise at what you’ll find. But if you want to know how to avoid it, here’s how to get out of the friend zone.

Overall, no matter what kind of relationship you have with a person, at one point or another you’ll reach a point where the relationship seems to plateau. It is at that point you’ll find out if a person is still worthy to be kept around. Because in life if you or they actually like someone or quote on quote ‘love’ someone enough, they’ll be there in your best of times and even your worst of times.