How Women Fall In Love
This is something that not a lot of people talk about because love is very subjective and greatly driven by emotions. How men love could totally be different to how women love because males and females are wired differently. But it’s important to try to get an understanding of it because it’s what gives those with a beating heart a form of life. When a woman is in love, her love towards her partner will only grow stronger until it reaches true love. You’ll know when it’s true love when you see a grandpa and grandma backpacking in Europe still holding hands. Relationship goals. So, here’s 10 ways on how women fall in love.
1. The need to know her partner better
Women are driven by curiosity to study and to find out more information regarding their partner. Falling in love for them is a long-term investment hence the need to take precaution. First, no woman would want to make the mistake by falling for someone who is likely to hurt them. That is why if a woman likes you, they’ll ask a ton of questions to get to know you, as this is the first step into a relationship. In the course of getting to know the person better, a woman will initially screen their partners to see if they are fit enough to move forward. Once she is convinced that the person has potential, then the rest will follow suit.
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2. The need to have fun
Some women like new experiences and things that are fun and fresh. Although some might say that they can just sit at home all day, every day, and watch Netflix. Which I highly doubt because doing something over and over again can be very tiresome and boring. Women would like it if their partner could take them out on a lovely date, go out bowling, or cooking together. The more experiences they create, the deeper they’ll fall in love. This is because experiencing new places and new activities release the feel-good chemicals in the brain, which she comes to associate with the partner she is with.
3. The need to feel appreciated
Women tend to fall in love with those who appreciate them. They want to feel special, loved, and be given priority. Simple gestures like opening the car door for her, pulling out the chair to let her sit and paying attention to her are some of the things that are consider sweet and thoughtful. Additionally, if she knows that her partner is only interested in her and her alone, they’ll receive bonus points. So, don’t make a woman feel insecure and unappreciated by checking other women out.
4. The need to love and get love back
Women deserve to be loved for them to love back equally. Most of them are not after materialistic things but they want to know that someone, somewhere, loves them. In this case, communication should play a crucial role in strengthening the bond between a couple and being able to reciprocate back. As stated earlier, the small things that you do for her creates an everlasting effect in the relationship and she will fall in love when she feels that from her partner.
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5. The need to know that they are reliable
As much as women need to love and be loved in return, their potential concern in a relationship is to find someone who is reliable. It does not imply that women are “gold-diggers” but more like “goal-diggers.” Haha get it? Okay never mind. But what they want is someone who is also responsible. They want someone who cares for them and potentially their kids in the future. So, if the person has their life figured out or has plans in the future, they’ll be attracted to that. I mean the idea is simple, women would probably easily get turned off if their partner is playing games and eating junk food every single day and not doing much with their life. Sometimes people just need a sense of security so they can feel safe and protected.
6. The need to be herself freely
While some women would pretend to be someone else, others would prefer to be themselves. A woman will fall in love if their partner could make her feel free. As such, giving her a platform to express herself freely and bring out her true color to see if they can get along together. So, give her some space to let her showcase her strength as well as vulnerability. In addition, if she can be in a relationship and still have her own life, hobbies, and friends, then she is more likely to fall in love with her partner.
7. The need for respect
This is a simple one. Without respect you’ll have conflict. Women are more likely to fall in love when their partner respects them. A partner who supports her when she needs it the most, pays attention to her, shows her kindness, and is honest with her are some of the characteristics of respect in a relationship. Also, respect works both ways, if you are giving respect, the other party should also reciprocate. It’s not a one-way street.
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8. The need for romance
Romance is the foundation of every romantic relationship. Women do appreciate their partner to be romantic enough to fulfill their fantasies and transform their fairy tale story to reality. Buying her flowers, going to candlelit dinner dates, bringing her chocolates, and watching movies together are consider sweet things to get a woman falling for them. But of course, there has to be a connection in the first place. Being romantic is part of the process when a woman falls in love.
9. A sense of humor
A great sense of humor is another factor that makes women fall in love. Those who can come up with funny jokes find it easier to win a woman’s heart. Laughter brings one another closer, therefore creating a stronger and intimate bond. When a woman is laughing at her partner’s jokes or with them, it creates a craving for it and keeps her wanting more. After all, we all seek to be happy and she’ll love it if her partner has a great sense of humor. But of course, there will be outliers who won’t enjoy this.
10. The need for a great conversationalist
If you’ve seen my other videos, I’ve mentioned before that communication is important in a relationship. Their partner must be able to understand them and effectively communicate with each other. Besides that, if their partner is conversant in various topics, they’ll be perceived more as an interesting person therefore have interesting conversations. But what is consider a good conversation is all subjective. There’s no right or wrong, but instead if they both click with each other on the same topic. It creates intimacy and at the same time they can learn a thing or two from each other. Helping each other grow. But I’m not saying that one should always be talking to each other. Silence is equally important as well because it shows that they are comfortable with each other without always having to talk.
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Overall, a woman will feel in love when their partner truly understands her and vice versa. There is no better feeling when they go out and they both enjoy each other’s company and being able to order food for each other without asking because they both complement each other. Over time, true love will form and that’s when the women and her partner functions as a couple.