How To Tell If A Girl Likes You
I’m assuming you clicked on here because you want to understand if the girl likes you so you can gather the confidence to make the first move, right? If so, I totally support you! Because you should probably make a move on her already. If a girl likes you, she’ll broadcast these signs to you so you can pick them up. Some are vague and some you flat out can’t miss. These signs will help you better understand how girls act so when you approach them and ask her out. Your chances of getting a “yes” back will be high and you won’t look like a creep doing so because you know she’s interested in you. With that being said, here are 15 signs on how to tell if a girl likes you.
1. She gets annoyed when you don’t give her any attention
Before you say anything about her being a crazy girl later on in the future, hear me out. And this is for those guys who are needy too. If you both are attention seekers, then you guys are meant to be. But anyway, the reason why she can get annoy is because she can get really jealous if you are talking to other girls and not her.
If you made plans and you didn’t follow through with it, she can get even frustrated with you. But the thing is that, deep down inside, she just wants your attention and is crazy for you, and if you don’t mind her like that, then you can obviously take the relationship to the next level with just this point. If not, then turn the other way and run as far as you can and up the hills because I’m just trying to protect you and not get locked up with a crazy girl.
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2. She wants you to meet her friends
And next step is to meet her parents, if you play your cards right. Haha. Just kidding. So, the reason why she wants you to meet them is because she probably already told them about you. Her friends really want to see you and see if you are a good fit in the group or with her. Well, whether you are a good fit or not, it doesn’t matter because she likes you. But, at the end of the day, it doesn’t hurt to get a few opinions about you from a couple of her close friends, right?
3. She becomes really nice towards you
Do you notice her treating you differently than everyone else? Does she bring you the things you need at school or at work? Does she remind you things? Does she randomly surprise you with gifts or just surprise you with herself? These are just a few things to take note of that she’s into you. If she compliments you and talks about you positively, then you can also be sure that’s she likes you.
4. She quickly responds to your text or calls
Whether you are contacting her through social media or with your phone, she’ll reply to you quickly. I mean, why wait for that one-day rule, when a quick response will do and gets straight to the point. After all she likes you so there’s no need to wait. But sometimes in reality, girls can get busy too. Just know that if she saw your message, she’ll get back to you as soon as possible. I can guarantee you that if she likes you, you’ll get a response back within a day no matter how busy she is. Well, unless she’s up hiking in a secluded area without reception. That’s one of the signs that a girl likes you.
5. She looks her best
When you realize that she never has a bad hair day or her outfit is always on point, it’s probably because she’s interested in you and wants to stand out and grab your attention. In addition, do you notice her putting more makeup on? If so, that’s always a telltale sign that she likes you. I mean who is she trying to look beautiful for? I’m pretty sure it won’t be her female friends. Well unless they have like Make-up Monday routine going on. So be on the lookout for that and that’s always a good sign to take note of.
6. She’s always down to do things with you
Haha if you know what I mean. Just kidding guys, if you were to invite her to go grab breakfast, lunch, or dinner she’ll be down. Even if it’s a one-on-one hang out or a group hang out, you’ll be sure she’ll say yes to them if she likes you. When a girl likes you, she would like to spend more time with you and the best way to do so is by saying “yes” to your plans. It’s also a low pressure invite since you were the one who initiated first.
Check out: 10 signs she’s constantly thinking about you
7. She’s playful with you
Consider this as flirting with you. Whether it’s making a joke here and there or teasing you, it’s probably because she likes you. In addition, if she tries to get physical with you meaning that she throws a few gentle punches at you or give you those soft pushes, then that’s a good sign she’s into you as well. Being playful is never a bad sign. Well, unless you don’t like being touched. In that case, how are you going to have sex later on?
8. She gives you lots of hugs
Girls have a tendency of hugging the people they like. Whether it’s a side hug, a gentle hug, or a full-on bear hug, she’ll give them all. Girls take hugs as being affectionate and a friendly way of getting closer to someone they like. So, if you also like her back, give her frequent hugs and do one of those hug-and-hold so you know it’s a real deal.
9. She’s nervous around you
This is especially true for shy girls. If you look at her and she can’t maintain eye contact, then she is either really nervous or simply not interested in you. But in this case, let’s just say that you sort of have a feeling and she likes you and she is nervous. When you are there, she will start getting those butterfly feelings and become really quiet. The fact that she is quiet could mean that her mind is completely blank and she has nothing to say or that she simply just enjoys your company. Sometimes silence is not a bad thing, she can be totally fine if you don’t talk. That is, if you guys are both working on something together. If not, it can be super awkward. So just letting you know.
10. She laughs and smiles with you
If you see that she’s laughing at all your jokes even the lame ones, then there’s a good chance that she likes you. She wants to make sure whether you are telling a funny story or a joke, you’ll have at least one fan to support you. She just wants to make sure you notice her and get the hint that she likes to hang around with you. To confirm that her laughter or smile is genuine, check to see if her eyes crinkle up.
11. She talks about you with her friends
Some girls do like a good gossip. If she likes you, there’s a huge chance that her close friends already knew. The reason why she would tell her friends is because she wants to let them know what they think about you or possibly have them to be the middle person to tell you that she likes you. Also, take a look around you when you are approaching her friends. Do they tease her or tease you when you approach them? If they do, then there’s a high chance that she likes you more than a friend.
12. She gives you her full attention
If she engages with you and responses to you well, then that means she is actually listening to what you’re saying. Her body language can play a role to determine if she is actively listening to you. Take note of her arm and see if they are open towards you and not crossed. Is her front body facing towards you? Is she leaning towards you? Also, is she asking questions to make the conversation more engaging? All these elements are good signs that she’s actively listening to you. If she can remember all the details, then that’s a huge giveaway that you’re always on her mind. A major sign on how to tell if a girl likes you.
13. She talks about the past and future with you
She talks about the past because she wants to know more about your history. Questions could range from how you were as a kid to how many relationships you had. Topics like that can give her an insight about you and see if you can potentially be in a relationship. On the other hand, when she talks about the future with you, she wants to see where you will be or stand a few years from now. I know this might sound like an interview questions, but hey, she just wants to be sure if she can have a future with you. The future talks can range from planning to watch a new movie a few weeks down the road to something crazy like having kids. So yeah, that can be scary for some of us. But hey, she just wants to know.
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14. She wants to spend more time with you
Whether you are studying, watching your favorite tv show, or playing sports. She wants to be there with you. I know this might seem like a little too attach, but you don’t know until she starts to invite herself over and suggest things to do together. If you realize that she’s doing things like that with you, you know that’s a good sign that she likes you.
15. She enjoys talking to you
She likes being around you because she feels like you are interesting and you guys can talk about anything. During these talks she will open up to you and share her secrets with you. If she does that, then there’s a really high chance that she likes you or she has already friendzone you and she see you as one of her girlfriends. Yeah, I said “girlfriend” because that’s what she does with her girl-friends. But don’t worry now, if she shows other signs that I presented to you, then you should be fine. Girls don’t normally share secrets to people unless they feel like you are close to them. So, if you like spending time with her and you feel like you guys just click, then why not move the relationship to the next level? And that’s a good sign to tell if a girl likes you.
Overall, there are a lot more than just 15 signs that girls show that they like you. You might come across a few signs that can be false alarm and that’s okay. At the end of the day, you are still learning to pick up their social signals. If the girl is blunt, she’ll tell you right off the bat. Then at that point, it’ll make your life and her life much easier. But that’s not always the case. I mean, if I had a bag full of confidence to give you right now, I would totally give them out like candy to you because I want you to take the initiative and ask her out. And remember you’ll miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. So there you have it 15 signs on how to tell if a girl likes you.