Ahh, I see you’re stuck trying to figure out if she likes you or not. Don’t worry. I’ve been there before. It’s all fun and games until someone catches feelings, right? Haha. But if you’re looking for signs. Then here are 10 signs on how to tell if a girl is into you.
1. She gives you a back massage.
Ahh, a good massage. I think I’m five years overdue for one. Anyway, unless you’re paying for a professional massage service, the only free massage therapist you’re going to find is a girlfriend. If you don’t have one of those either, you might get lucky if this girl gives you a back massage. Here’s the key though – this is flirty behavior and definitely shows that she’s into you. Imagine massaging someone you don’t like? Yeah, that doesn’t happen. This is common to tell if a girl is into you.
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2. She makes you feel like a king.
Alright champ, don’t burst your ego on this one. I am NOT saying that this girl worships you and thinks you reign supreme over all the land. When I say she treats you like a king, I mean that she treats you like a king while she acts like a queen. There’s an equal balance between the two of you, but the respect and admiration she has for you are high-quality. Of course, I should hope you are giving the same vibes right back to her if she does.
3. She drops more hints than a scavenger hunt.
If you’ve never participated in a scavenger hunt, then maybe that’s why you’re still lost. But the basic idea is that you find a clue that leads you to another clue and then another one until you reach the final prize. Well, let’s say that this girl is dropping more hints and clues that she can carry, in the form of verbal insinuations and physical flirting. It’s up to you to pick up these clues and realize that this girl is into you.
4. She commits the party-foul of liking and un-liking one of your old pics.
While this action may make us feel like retreating into our rooms for the rest of eternity in embarrassment, this party-foul might be the trick for her to get on your radar. This means she was doing a little cyber-stalking of your social media which, in turn, means that she’s investigating someone she is interested in, and that so happened to be you. And has this ever happen to you when your friends ask you to show them pictures of your crush and you don’t want to but they insist, so you cave in and you instruct them specifically not to double-tap on their photo. And the friend freaken double taps on the photo and it triggered a like and they thought that it was for zooming in. Yeah, it happens.
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5. She writes you note cards.
A text or DM is easy. A written card, though? How magical, how historical, how absolutely unique, right? Who even owns note cards anymore? A girl who writes you something personal with pen and paper is one who is trying to get real personal with you!
6. She gets dolled up around you.
A girl has every right to look beautiful for her own self. The key is to notice that this girl looks different only in settings where she knows you’ll be around. This is to say that if you see her on other occasions from afar, or run into her unexpectedly, she looks way simpler than on the days she plans to be with you. Makeup, nicer clothes, and styled hair are good indicators to tell if a girl is into you.
7. She’s all over you, then she plays hard to get.
This one is a little tricky because you’ve got to be absolutely sure that she’s playing hard to get and not just uninterested in you. If this girl has been flirting with you and making it openly known that she wants to be romantically involved with you, but then suddenly goes missing in action and is acting even more distant than the friend zone, then this could be a sign that she’s started playing hard to get. She likes the chase and at the same time, she likes the attention. Sometimes you just gotta go for it and see how she responds back to you. This way you know your answer upfront whether she likes you or just playing with you.
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8. She eats slowly with you.
A girl who eats slowly with you could be doing it for multiple reasons. First, is that they may be self-conscious eating in front of someone they like. Second, may be that they’re so focused on you and the night at hand that their mind just can’t get into the meal. Or Third, would be that they know the slower they eat, the more time they have to spend with you. All of them are sweet and revolve around their feelings for you! Or she could just be a slow eater.
9. She talks about her family with you.
If she opens up about her family, which includes the good, the bad, and the ugly, then you can be sure that she’s sharing and being vulnerable on purpose. She sees you as someone she can trust and that she’s hoping to build a stronger bond with you.
10. She acts like she’s your girlfriend in public.
A girl may do this by always holding your hand or hugging you in front of others, consistently being by your side, or do a bunch of other flirty actions that may trick strangers into thinking that you two are “a thing”. She’s claiming you before another girl does. And if you don’t see that, then I don’t know what to tell you. Haha
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Overall if a girl likes you, she doesn’t have to verbally say it. I mean, if she does, then you’re already at a good spot. And you’re probably not reading this. But if you need more signs than this, check out my whole section on “How to tell if a girl likes you” to see if she gives you any more hints. So there you have it 10 signs on how to tell if a girl likes you.