How To Tell If A Girl Is Flirting With You
So, I’m assuming you’re talking to a girl at this point and you’re having a really hard time telling if she is flirting with you or just overly nice. Now depending on the frequently on how often she does a particular action, it could tell you something. And by all means, I’m not 100% right on this because every girl is different. Some girls might try to even hide it but deep down inside, they actually want you really bad. Like you could get down on one knee and propose to her without getting her parents blessing and she’ll probably say “yes.” … Well in some Hollywood movies. But jokes aside, do consider these signs that she’s probably attracted or interested in you to even flirt with you. Here’s 15 ways to tell.
1. She’s always texting you
Somehow you guys end up texting about the most randomest thing and you on the other hand will just go along with it. Because you low-key kind of like her. She’ll ask you random questions, ask for help, text you funny memes or gossip about what happened today at school. For her, there’s always something to talk about. Oh yeah, and don’t forget the emojis. Be on the lookout for the winky face emoji, kissy face emoji, heart eyes emoji, the grabbing boobies, I mean the reaching out for a hug emoji, and the famous eggplant emoji. If you know, then you know. This is her way of flirting with you and getting your attention.
2. She looks at you, a lot
When I say a lot, I mean like every time when you’re within her vicinity she’ll turn and check you out. If you’re in the other side of the classroom, no worries she’ll somehow find her eyes gazing at you. And if you ever catch her looking at you, she’ll look away for a bit, but then turns right back to you just to find you still looking at her and the cycle repeats itself. If you catch her doing that, she’s most likely flirting with you with her eyes.
3. She teases you, a lot
If you turn red as a cherry when you see her, she’ll definitely tease you about it. She’s probably quite sassy and sarcastic too. If you both have a good sense of humor, then you’ll both click on this level. Teasing is great for creating an emotional connection and that’s probably why she’s teasing you. Plus, it keeps the sparks going and the relationship alive.
4. She touches you, a lot
Anything below the waist if you know what I mean… I’m talking about a foot massage. But the PG version of this is that does she play with your hands, put her arms around your back, gives you back rubs, or neck massages? Does she tickle you, or give you hugs every time she sees you? If that’s the case, you already know what she’s trying to do. Seduce you.
5. She said she’s cold
Hint hint, she’s cold. She may or may not be cold but she wants your jacket. She’s subtly doing this because she wants to be closer to you. If she’s doing this, she’s definitely flirting with you.
6. She’s the one initiating things with you
Some girls would like it if the guy approaches them first, but hey, it’s the 21st century now, she has control of her destiny. If she’s initiating hangouts with you and starting conversations, it’s a pretty good sign that she’s attracted to you. For some girls, this is their way of flirting.
7. She gives you a nickname
Okay this actually has to be a nickname given by her. If everyone calls you a nerd and she starts calling you a nerd, then it doesn’t mean anything. It’s not personal. But if she does give you a personalize nickname like Cutie McBooty, then you know she’s trying to flirt with you. Perhaps she calls you that because you eat a lot of McDonalds and you have a cute bubbly butt. I don’t know. The thing is that these are like inside jokes or moments you guys have together and that’s why it’s personal for you two.
8. She gets really close to you
If she invades your personal space, you can definitely say that she’s flirting with you. This normally leads to physical contact and it’s up to you on how you want to proceed. Side note. This normally happens if you guys are watching a movie at home. And it could go down something like this if she likes you. Her body will naturally gravitate towards you. Shoulder accidently bumping into your shoulder. Two minutes later, her back is backed up on your chest and you start to lean back a little and now you’re both laying on the couch and her hands somehow gets tangled up with your hands and your arms are wrapped around her and she slowly assuming the fetal position turning herself into the little spoon. You somehow end up as the big spoon and now you’re stuck because the movie just started 15 minutes ago and there’s another hour and 30 minutes or so to go and your hand is fucken numb.
9. She talks, a lot
Sometimes girls can talk a lot. If she’s interested in you, this is her way of flirting with you, by talking non-stop. If you guys can talk for hours, that’s a sign. Whether she’s talking with you over the phone or in person, you bet she’ll thrown in some jokes to lighten up the mood and ask lots of questions to get to know you better. And for some reason you find yourself still talking to her for more than 5 hours in the middle of the night, you know she wants you.
10. She makes rated R jokes
Yeah, you know it’s real if she’s making those dirty jokes. I don’t think I need to say more on this part. It’s obvious that she’s flirting with you because a normal girl would not do this.
11. She makes you laugh
If she’s trying to make you laugh, that’s a really good sign that she’s interested in you. Because she’s actually trying to flirt with you. If she says something and you’re able to laugh, then she’s probably trying to test the water out to see if you like her. Now this just her style of flirting.
12. Her tone of voice changes with you
Usually if someone is flirting with you, you’ll be able to tell by their voice. It’s usually a higher pitch and sounds sweeter compare to when she’s talking to her friends or a stranger. When you get a chance, just observe her if she does a voice change on you. she’s probably doing it subconsciously. If her tone of voice does change, she’s definitely trying to flirt with you. It’s also often said she’ll talk slightly faster if she’s flirting with you because it gets her heart pumping faster and her adrenaline up, so if you want, mark her speed too.
13. She fixes herself
If she sees you walking towards her, she’ll try brushing her hair back and straighten out her clothes. If needed, she’ll go to the restroom and clean herself up so she looks good around you. And if she likes you, she’ll start dressing up. If she’s doing this around you, you can say that she’s trying to flirt with you.
14. She twirls her hair
If she’s playing her hair and talking to you. It’s normally a good sign that she’s interested in you and that she’s flirting. She could be subconsciously doing it without knowing. This could also go with fidgeting things. Her heart could be beating fast and she actually likes the adrenaline.
15. She laughs, a lot
Do you know this one girl who always laughs when you say something? But then you realize that it’s not funny but she still laughs. If so, there’s a chance that she might like you. It’s her way of flirting with you, but she can’t keep it up for long. If you like her, then take some initiative to flirt back. Also, don’t forget her smiles. Smiling in general is really vague to tell if she’s actually going to flirt with you, but a good rule of thumb is that if you catch her smiling from afar and she’s holding that smile for long than a few seconds, then you know she’s interested in you. Because normal people don’t hold longer than a few seconds and looking directly at you. Well, unless they are crazy.
Overall, you bet if a girl is interested in you, she’ll flirt with you. After reviewing all these points, I hope you now have a better idea of this. What’s most important to note are the signs that she gives you, her body language, action, and the overall vibe you receive from her. Some girls are just natural flirts and it’ll be hard to tell if she’s actually interested in you, but if you do come across one like that, just practice flirting back with her. You’ll get experience from it. There’s no harm in that. Worst case scenario is that you make a new friend and then develop feelings and get marry and have like five kids.