How To Talk To Girls On Tinder
So, you finally caved into getting a Tinder or perhaps thinking about it because you know life can get really boring without a partner. And for those of you who don’t know what Tinder is. It’s basically just another dating app to connect with people like emotionally or physically. But before you start going ham on Tinder, I just want to inform you the character that you will become when venturing out in this Tinder arena. Then I’ll talk about how to talk to girls on Tinder. So, I’ve broken it down to 10 characters you could be on Tinder.
10 Characters You Could Be (Popular Options):
1. The F-Boy – Great looking body. Usually shirtless, has working out pics, and flexing his six pack. Bio will say something like, “here in town for a few nights.”
2. The show off – This guy will be wearing designer everything and he’ll be with models and fancy cars. His bank account may or may not be bigger than yours.
3. The animal lover – There will definitely be a photo of him with a dog. Could definitely get a girl to swipe right just for the sake of the cute animal.
4. The WTF guy – Could be nerdy, could be funny, photos probably need better angles. Bio could need some improvements. Could be slightly awkward.
5. The outdoor guy – hiking, skydiving, snowboarding, bike riding, you name it. It’s always going to be outdoors.
6. The baby carrier – The guy who says he’s holding his niece but in reality, it’s his baby. Looking for a sugar mama.
7. The old man – Could potentially be a sugar daddy. Age listed as 39 but actually 49. Somewhat creepy.
8. The mysterious guy– No pictures of himself. And if he does, it’s going to be him with 3 or 4 other guys making people guess. Or it’ll just be pictures of things.
9. The catfish – This guy or girl or an alien whoever it is will have a very hot photo up with a great bio but will only tease the girl or it’s just another promo
10. The perfect guy – Has very modest photos, tall, has a very detailed bio. Just charming overall. They’re basically a unicorn.
Now, I know we all want to be the perfect guy but sometimes things just don’t work that way and end up as the WTF guy. And that’s okay. Just be honest and true to yourself. Now once you have picked your character, here’s 8 things you can do when talking to girls on Tinder.
1. Reply back quickly
Guys, you can’t try to playing it cool on Tinder because if you do, you’ll just end up playing yourself …. With your hands. If you haven’t notice already. Girls get tons of matches. When I say tons, I mean more than what you get plus 20 then times 20. And if you don’t get many matches in one day, well try hiring a professional photographer to take your photos. But anyway, if you wait too long to message a girl, they’ll immediately lose interest in you and forget about you. You have to be responsive because there will always be someone in front of you that’s going to put in the extra time to reply back to her. After all, the goal is to leave that platform and get her number so your aunties and uncles don’t give you crap about why you still don’t have a girl.
2. Stand out
This goes hand in hand with the quick response. Don’t be those guys that says, “Hi,” or “Hey, what’s up?” Girls get tons of does boring messages already. You need to be unique. Read her bio and look at her photos to see if you got something in common to talk about. If you can’t find anything in common, crack a joke or start by asking her a playful question. This will help when you talk to girls on tinder.
3. Keep your messages short and to the point
In the beginning, be thoughtful and make it more directed to her. Don’t start bolstering yourself and have long monologues. If the text is long and boring she’ll easily lose interest. Also, talk about one idea at a time and don’t have like 3 different ideas going on at the same time. And if you feel like the conversation is dying. Make sure to wheel them back in with a charming open-ended question. Don’t ask questions that you’ll get a “yes” or “no” answer back. Sometimes girls can give one-word responses and you don’t want to the victim of it.
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4. Compliment her
Don’t just compliment her looks. Sometimes it just makes you seem thirsty. Give compliments about her hobbies, lifestyle, or how she has a cute dog. Make her feel good and flatter her. This will actually let her know that you are paying attention to her and not just about her looks. Paying attention to the details do work.
5. Check your spelling
You know what’s a major turn off. Typos and errors. It shows that you are lazy and not thoughtful. You know how awkward it is if you’re telling a joke or texting something and you don’t even have the right comma in place to make it sound right. Girls do like guys who can carry themselves and are smart. They are screening you from the start. And if you could pass the test, you could potentially earn yourself her number and meet up with her in real life.
6. Don’t make it an interview
As a guy asking the questions back to back will make her ghost you instantly. Girls don’t like to be interrogated. You cannot connect with her romantically if you’re just feeding your list of questions to her. Be a little charming when texting her. Keep it fun and flirty.
7. Don’t be overtly sexual
I know some guys can be direct and straight forward and just want the real deal, but still you need to have some class. There’s about a 90% chance that it’s a real lady on the other end. So yeah. Plus, being that direct will probably work only 1% of the time so don’t ruin your ratio or your chances of getting the girl in the first place. So, guys, calm down.
8. Get out of Tinder
This is probably the most important part when talking to girls on Tinder. You want to get her phone number or add her on social media. Then you’ll know that it’s real. Once you have successful done that, you would want to schedule a date with her. Once you get the date, it’s make or break. If you mess up, it’s okay, just another learning experience. Don’t get too caught up with it.
In conclusion:
Overall, I just want to be honest with you guys. It’s really hard to get at girls on dating apps or online in general because you’re competing with a bunch of other guys fighting for attention. It’s like when you’re a baby fighting for your mom’s attention but this is like the online adult version of it. Plus, it’s a numbers game. The more you match and practice you get, you’ll get better… I hope.
Also, here’s a bonus tip for you guys. As a guy, just swipe right to everyone and don’t take the time to read the girls profile because the girl might not even swipe right to you. If you are lucky to even get a match, then you can take your time to read their profile. In the meantime, good luck swiping. Hope you found these tips to be helpful on how to talk to girls on tinder.