We all might have seen enough shows to know that a bouquet of roses or fancy dinner can show how you feel about someone. It doesn’t take a lot to know the basic ways to show someone you love them. You know, like the grandmas who don’t stop feeding you until the moment you leave the house, and that could be one way of showing love. The thing is, these basic ways we show someone we love them could just be overlooked. So, it’s time to look at these 10 ways on how to show someone you love them if you really care about them. Trust me; there’s more than just flowers and food.
1. Treat them like family.
For better or for worse, you can’t choose your family. Sometimes they disappoint you or butt heads with you, but you stick around because blood is thicker than water. Try to give that same commitment and love to them. If they don’t always agree with you, you don’t need to focus on that 24/7. If you butt heads now and again, let it go just like the movie Frozen. Then, on the flip-side, give them the same loyalty and love you would give a family member who would call you to help them to change a flat tire in the middle of your busy day. The person you want to show love to deserves the same dedication!
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2. Pay attention to the details.
I’ve mentioned roses before, which are still a nice touch to say “I love you,” but not if the person is allergic to flowers. Pay attention to the details. If your person love-love-LOVES milk chocolate, but hates white chocolate, know which one to buy. If they mention wanting something small and special, make a note of it and surprise them with it. Just like expensive designs – love is all about the details.
3. Remind them you love them.
Chances are, this person might already know or have a hunch that you love them. This feeling didn’t just appear overnight, so take it back to when you first love them. Relive earlier moments, like that special date that got you all in your feels or that moment that really put a spark in your eyes. Talk to them about what you love about them, and what made you fall in love with them in the first place. It’ll be a huge self-esteem boost for them, and a big heart-eyed for you!
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4. Do something they love, even if you don’t like it.
I’m sure your loved one has a hobby or interest that you couldn’t give a hoot about. It’s normal – we don’t fall in love with our twins… at least, you really shouldn’t for genetic reasons. Make a plan and enjoy this activity with them, even if the only thing you enjoy is seeing them smile over it. They’ll be sure to see just how much you love them. That in itself is worth the effort!
5. Spend quality time together.
No phones, no TV, and no distractions. Go for a walk, play a sport, have an intimate meal together. Nowadays adults are worse than babies and seem to have a 2-minute attention span. Break the mold and give this person your full attention to show your full love for them.
6. Learn their love language and use it.
Did you know that we all show and receive love in distinct ways? There are five primary love languages. They are giving gifts, physical touch, quality time, acts of service, and loving words. Sit with them and do a quick online quiz to see which ones they fall under, and take that into account the next time you want to show them love in a way they will truly appreciate.
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7. Show affection in public.
Now, this depends on the person. Before you get carried away, I am NOT talking about making out like two lunatics in front of families at the local park. No one needs to see that. What I am talking about is the little PDAs that are much simpler, more elegant, and more enchanting. This is if you have a partner that you really love. These include holding hands, putting your hand on the other person’s back, or a quick kiss on the cheek or forehead without reason. All of these are excellent ways to remind them that you love them without saying anything at all.
8. Support them when they’re overwhelmed.
Feeling overwhelmed is about just as fun as sitting in rush-hour traffic. These are moments where we absolutely need comfort, support, and overall help. Lend a hand whenever your loved one seems to be swamped, and their sigh of relief will be music to your ears when they know that you are there for them.
9. Do something special for them for no reason.
Be spontaneous and make this person’s day. Do it in whatever way they would like. You can make their favorite meal, buy them a random gift, or surprise them with something creative. Whatever it is, make sure it comes on a day as boring as October 22, when no one is expecting anything exciting to happen.
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10. Show appreciation.
One of the biggest ways you can show that you love someone is simply by appreciating them. We often feel this, but fail to show it. That person may not even know you appreciate them! Tell them, out loud, or write it in a message, but make sure you get the point across. Because how would they know, if they don’t know. You know?
Conclusion:
Since you’re reading this, I just want to stop and say… Awwwww. It’s great to see that we have people in the world who want to make sure that the important people in their lives feel loved. If you use some of these ways to do that, let me know. So there you have it, 10 ways on how to show someone you love them.