The dating scene is tricky, but getting to know someone via text first is even trickier. Add in the fact that some girls text multiple guys at the same time, and you may be wondering how to know if a girl likes you through text or not. I’ve got 10 clear-cut examples for you to look out for that will point you in the right direction. If you can check off at least five of these, you’ve got a pretty good shot.
1. She texts you back quickly.
Some girls may attempt to play mind games and wait forever before texting you back to play hard to get, but if a girl really likes you, she’ll want to keep the conversation going and talk to you as much as possible. A constant back and forth and a quick reply is a sure sign she’s into you. Make sure to text her back quickly as well to show you are also interested in her.
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2. She says she likes talking to you.
Some may say girls are hard creatures to read, claiming some girls say one thing while meaning another, but in this case, she means what she says. If a girl confides in you and tells you she enjoys talking to you, then don’t doubt her. She wouldn’t say that to you unless she meant it.
3. She sends you different pictures.
If she is sending you pictures such as selfies. places she is visiting, or anything interesting or funny she sees throughout the day, she definitely likes you and wants to share her daily experiences with you. If she saw something that made her laugh and she snapped a pic and sent it your way, she wants you to laugh with her and improve your mood while she’s at it.
4. She shares her stories with you.
You’ll know a girl is really opening up to you when she shares her stories with you. These stories could be anything: something that happened to her that day, something she is going through, or maybe a hard decision she has to make. If she is sharing personal tidbits of her life and asking your opinion on things, she values what you think and may have a crush on you.
5. She’ll double-text you if you don’t respond.
If your conversation with her is usually pretty constant with back-and-forth banter and then you suddenly take a while to text her back, her response is a tell-tale sign of her feelings. If she never reaches back out, she may not care as much as you think or be a bit angry and cold. And if she double-texts you though, especially if it’s in a playful, picking nature, she likes you. If you want to stay in her good graces, let her know if you are busy and can’t text at the moment.
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6. She finds opportunities to ask you to hang out.
If she is continuously finding flirty ways to spend time with you, you can count on the fact that this girl likes you. For example, if you say you’re good at math and she suddenly needs a tutor, she just wants an excuse to hang out with you. If you like her, take her up on the offer. It’ll be a good chance to hang out and tackle some homework.
7. She flirts back.
If your text conversation with her is constantly moving with witty banter and plenty of flirty back and forth, she’s into you. If you compliment a girl over text or try to keep the chat going and she keeps feeding you conversation enders like ‘awww thanks’ instead of complimenting you back, she probably isn’t feeling you, bro.
8. She texts you first.
If you had a conversation with her that naturally ended and you guys haven’t texted in a while, wait a bit. When she initiates the conversation by asking you a question or seeing how your day is, then you can tell she is interested in your life and wants to know more about it. This is a great sign!
9. She sends you memes.
If this girl is sending you memes, especially funny ones, she is totally flirting with you. By sharing funny memes, she is being a bit vulnerable in showcasing her sense of humor. This is a great way to get to know her more. Match her energy and send them back as well. It will make the conversation that much more fun.
10. She sends way more than just one-word replies.
If you are the one constantly initiating conversation and asking questions or having conversations with not much response from her, she probably doesn’t care for you as much as you would like. If her normal reply is short and lazy such as ‘k’, ‘yup’, or ‘cool’ with nothing else, she is not interested in the conversation. On the other hand, if she answers questions fully, shares a ton of details, and asks you questions or compliments you back, she is having so much fun talking to you and doesn’t want the conversation to end!
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Conclusion:
Remember, if she does at least five of these, you have a good shot that she’s into you. Ideally, you’ll want to see around six or seven to be 100% confident, but hey, you can always shoot your shot and see if you score. I’d love to hear about the ways you show your feelings via text if you’re down to share them in the comments! So there you have it 10 signs on how to know if a girl likes you through text.