How To Know If A Girl Likes You Over Text
So hopefully by now you got the girl’s phone number or at least texting online. Hopefully doing both, but I guess either one is good enough. Texting is probably the easiest and stress-free form of communication. You can basically just type, hit send, and let the receiver interpret the message without you ever working out your face muscles and breaking a sweat. But then that begs the question. How can you tell if a girl likes you if she’s not physically there with you? Don’t worry, I gotchu again. Let’s check out these 10 signs on how to know if a girl likes you over text.
1. She’s texting you late at night
Anything past 12am is considered later. People need to sleep you know and anything pertaining to school or work can wait until the next morning unless it’s some urgent assignments that you need to get done. But if not and she’s still up texting you, it’s probably because she needs her daily dose of you before going to bed. So, if she’s texting you after those hours, it’s a good sign that she likes you.
2. She sends you music to listen
Perhaps it’s what she’s listening to and wants to share it with you. Or maybe you both have the same good taste in music. But what you want to look out for are those cutsie romantic lovey dovey music. What’s really smooth is if she sends a text like this… “Oh you know what’s pretty cool? An artist made an entire song out of a phrase from Avengers Endgame” (Send I Love you 3000 song). (Wife her up).
3. Your contact information is different on her phone
If she has something cute for your contact information, then you know she’s crushing on you. But how can you see it if you’re not there? Great question, again. There’re various ways to find out. For example, you can ask one of your mutual friends to spy of her and be like, “Hey Kathy, sorry to bug you, but can I borrow your phone really quick to call my parents?” Then they’ll have to go through her contacts just to find you. But then if you don’t have friends, you can pretend you sent something to her but in all reality you didn’t, and have her screenshot her phone to prove if the message went through or not. Then you’ll at least have a chance to see what she saved your contact name as because it’ll capture that too.
4. She asks you to send her a photo of yourself
If she sends you photos of herself, that’s an obvious sign, but now if she’s asking a photo of you, then she’s flirting with you. There’s no reason why someone would randomly ask another person for their photo unless they require it for an assignment. But that’s very rare. Other than that, this flirty thing you guys have going on could lead to something more. I’m just saying.
5. Text her when she’s busy
So, in this case, when you know a girl is busy and she can still reply back to your text, then you know it’s real. Because obviously everyone knows that texts are like ex and they can wait, but if she doesn’t and still texts you, that’s a good sign. So, here’s a trick to find out. Ask her when she’s usually busy. Then, during her busy hours, give her a text, and if she responds, then you’re in the green my friend.
6. She starts texting you about feelings
This topic could be pretty sensitive. No one likes to talk about feelings to another person unless they are comfortable with them. In this case, she’s comfortable with you if she does it. When she’s sharing her feelings and asking about your feelings, it’s a good indicator that she’s already falling for you. And if she does all that and she pops the million-dollar question, that is, “how do you feel about me?” You best bet better tell her how you honestly feel because she could be your girlfriend or your future wife. Okay maybe not that far, but do tell her that you like her if you do! She’s basically opening the door for you to come in.
7. She replies back immediately to you
You know she might not have anything better to do, but just hopelessly waiting for your text. I’m not saying all girls do that, but you can get a generalization of that if she replies back to you quicker than flash. Anything that’s within the minutes is really good though.
8. She notices when your texting behavior changes
Let’s say for a week or two your texting game was strong with her. Instant replies, long text messages, sending selfies and emojis, but then all of sudden, when you slow down for a bit, she starts to get a little worried and asked you, “is everything all right?” or “you haven’t been responsive lately, are you okay?” If that’s the case, and she’s starting to have these concerns about you, then this is a good sign to have because she’s obviously into you to even care.
9. She sounds super hyperactive on text
For this one, some girls act this way and some girls don’t. But if she does, it’s a good sign. She basically caps lock specific words to make sure they stand out and uses the exclamation mark a lot. In addition, she’s always in an upbeat positive mood when texting you. But that’s a good thing. It makes the conversation fun and engaging. Oh yeah and you can’t forget about the exaggeration of things. It’s all for the laughs and giggles I think.
10. She calls you names on text
Does this sound familiar: loser, jerk, dork, or even boo? But of course, in a playful way. What’s even better than this is if she gives you a nickname like, Candy-Man… Maybe you eat a lot of candy or something or is it that you’re sweet at everything that you do. Haha. Maybe you should ask her that. If she’s constantly calling you names, it’s another form of teasing but that’s a good thing because at least you know she’s interested in you enough to do so.
Overall, after getting to know a girl and flirting over text, it’s time to move it in person or perhaps video chat, next. It’s one thing to type words on a screen and another having that face-to-face interaction. It’s totally different and I would 100% recommend you to try it out and then of course tell me your story because I’m nosey af. So that’s how to know if a girl likes you over text.