If you’re watching this video, I’d love to learn more about you and your favorite YouTube video topics. I’m interested in you, but not interested in you. Catch my drift? Figuring out how to know a girl is interested in you in that special romantic way takes a bit of detective work. Luckily, there are 8 signs to look out for.
1. She asks you what your weekend plans are… every weekend.
A coworker, friend, or colleague asking you what you were up to last weekend is regular chitchat. Someone who asks you what you’re going to do every weekend plus what you did afterward is either super nosy or super into you. The one who’s into you wants to know who you hang out with and why because she is curious if she has any competition. Asking about your weekend will also give her insight into your hobbies and what makes you tick. The more she knows, the closer she can get to you through shared interests, and the more details she’ll have to decide if you’re compatible enough to begin with.
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2. She makes jokes about the girls you must be dating.
When I say she makes jokes, I don’t mean that she makes fun of anyone you’re dating – although she could. More so, this refers to when she makes remarks about how you must have so many options or dates because of your looks, attitude, or generally just because you’re dateable. I used to tell this one guy he could get as many girls as Liam Hemsworth, which is something. These kinds of lines are essentially saying you’re such a catch that you must have tons of women. What she really means is that she thinks you’re a dateable, great guy and she’s trying to catch you.
3. She thinks your quirks are cute.
I’m going to be honest with you here; most people aren’t going to think your quirks are cute. They’re just going to see them as quirks, which are kind of weird. If you find a girl who can’t get enough of your quirks – meaning she gushes over them, says they’re so cute, and talks about them with a big smile on her face – then she’s not just interested in your quirks, she’s interested in you.
4. She’ll park near your car if she has the chance.
If you guys tend to meet at the same place, like the gym, college, apartment complex, or work, you’ll notice that she’ll try to snag a parking spot near your car if she arrives after you. This tends to happen a lot when you only see each other at work or school. These situations give her the perfect excuse to run into you when you’re either entering or leaving that area, allowing for some chit-chat about what you two are up to afterward.
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5. She’s interested in any particular hobbies you have.
I say particular hobbies because anyone could like to watch a football game on TV but not everyone wants to go metal detecting at dusk. Your card collection might be unique, but it’s not likely considered a cool or traditional thing to do. If you have any hobbies like collecting odd things or practicing strange activities or meditations, I’m not judging you, even though some of the world might. Not this girl though. If she’s interested in you, she’s going to be interested in your particular hobbies too. She might even try them out! Heck, I’ve gone deep sea fishing for a guy before and I am grossed out by worms. Go figure.
6. If another girl enters the room, she gets closer to you.
Females can be very territorial. It happens in nature and it happens in our day-to-day world. If she’s interested in you and another girl walks into the room – especially if the other girl is attractive – you’ll get the sense that this chick is marking her territory. She’ll stand closer to you and try extremely hard to hold your attention. And, she’ll instantly notice if you notice the other girl. Be very careful here, because your actions will tell her a lot about how you feel.
7. She bites her lip when she looks at you.
Oh, la, la, the lip bite. It is definitely a sensual gesture that shows physical interest. You could basically tell someone “You’re so darn hot” and it would equate to biting your lip. If that doesn’t say she’s interested, then I don’t know what would.
8. She’ll never cancel – only reschedule.
If a girl is interested in you, she wants to hang out, get to know you, and make her way from friend zone to flirt town. That’s why you’ll never get a cancellation out of her. The worst she’ll do under the most pressing of circumstances is reschedule a plan you two had together because something urgent came up. I know if the guy I’m interested in has to cancel, I’ll even try to get him to reschedule instead so that we stay committed to seeing one another.
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Conclusion:
Alright, guys, you’ve got the tools to see if she’s interested. How many does she check off? Just one or two won’t do it, so try to get at least four in the books to make sure she’s really into you and not just a pal. Would you add anything to this list? Let me know in the comments! So there you have it 8 signs on how to know a girl is interested in you.