How To Get Your Crush To Notice You
So, invisibility huh? Isn’t that a good power to have? I mean you could do a lot of pretty bad things with it. Ummm… Prison break? But too bad your crush won’t notice you. If you actually want to let them know that you exist, you need to make an effort to do so, or you’ll just be lost in the crowd. Here are 10 slick tricks on how to get your crush to notice you.
1. Smell good
No one likes a bad odor on them. Well, unless you’re like one of the few who likes that kind of stuff. Make sure to shower every day and use soap. It’s affordable so you have no excuse. If you sweat a lot and know you have bad body odor, use deodorant. When going out, put a few spritz of cologne or perfume on your pulse area to enhance your smell but don’t overdo it to the point where you’re trying to suffocate them and knock them out. I mean, if that’s the case, you should try chloroform.
2. Have similar interest as your crush
Okay this might require you to do a bit of stalking. If stalking is a bit of a strong word for you, then you can call it as, “intensive research of an individual.” Of course, for academic purposes. Study and take notes of what they like to do. When you know what they like to do, try to be more involved with their activities or at least try to be around them, letting them know that you are there. But don’t make it too obvious that you’re there for them. Now, I know some people might say, “oh, you shouldn’t change yourself for someone else.” You’re not changing yourself for them, let’s just call it trying new things. Plus, the main focus is to get them to notice you, so once you achieve that, you can do something else if you don’t like it. Also, it’s not stalking if you don’t get caught and people don’t know. So be very slick about it.
3. Dress up and stand out
If you just blend in with the crowd you might as well tell your crush to close their eyes and randomly select a partner. You must look sharp and presentable and very well dateable if you want your crush to notice you. Perhaps try on the color red. It’s bold and will definitely make you stand out. And for girls, don’t be afraid to put on that red lip stick. Red can symbolize confidence, love, and seduction. And if you’re Asian, you already know it’s a baby making color. So, give it a try.
4. Make eye contact
I know, I talk about eye contact in most of my videos, but for those who are new to my channel or for those who just want to know a thing or two, just know that eye contact is important. Eye contact is probably where you’ll create that initial spark between the two of you. It’s intimate and not too overwhelming for your crush. So occasionally and naturally from time to time try to lock eyes with them for a brief moment to get their attention. If you’re bold enough. I dare you to give them a wink.
5. Be funny
If you have humor on your side. You’re already more than 50% ahead of the game. People in general like a good laugh and if you can crack a few jokes and tell funny stories, you’ll definitely be able to draw people’s attention and have them coming back to you for more. Laughter is contagious, and if you can get one person to laugh other people will follow. Sooner or later it’ll reach to your crush and they’ll want to jump in on it and also other things in life.
6. Show them you have your life together
Honestly if you have a plan in place and you kind of have a sense of your own future, I think that’s pretty attractive, or maybe that’s just me. Like heck yeah, let me know at what age you are planning to get a house, and I’ll slide into your DM when you’re successful and close to getting a house. I’m kidding… sort of. But confidence is pretty attractive so don’t be afraid to show that off. Let them know you have a set of amazing skills or show off your talent like if you’re good a photoshop, you can photoshop you and them together. Okay that might be a little bit too creepy, yeah, don’t do that. Own your strengths so they’ll notice you. Also, be mature. Some people like those who are seasoned and ripe. I’m just saying.
7. Be kind and nice
In general, I think it’s safe to say that people in general are attracted to other nice people. So be nice to people, don’t put people down, don’t be a complainer, be caring, and have a kind heart. And you know how people say that nice guys finish last. Well, they obviously don’t know the whole story to it. Nice guys generally, end up having a successful relationship with their partner and stay together longer as a couple than some jerk or cocky guy whose relationship is short lived. Because it doesn’t take someone that long to realize that deep down inside they aren’t nice. And I didn’t mean to exclude the ladies. It applies to the them as well.
Here’s how to be nice: “10 tips on how to be a nicer person”
Also check out: “How to make someone feel special”
8. Turn the tables around
Okay this one is a tricky play. It may work or it may not, but I’m going to tell you anyways. So, it requires two things, One, it requires you to have a mutual friend. Second, it requires your crush to simply do one thing that shows interest in you. Whether it’s locking eye for a split second or if they barely bump into you in class or something. Then you casually go up to your mutual friend and let them know that so and so, let just say Tom was staring at you today, and that you think he likes you. If that mutual friend is a good friend of your crush, they’ll tell your crush and possibility tease him by saying, “Hey, you like her, huh? She said you were checking her out.” And voila, you have just turned the game around and your crush will start to notice you more and possibly find you interesting. Obviously, this has a lot of moving parts and you have to get it perfect in order for it to work. I mean sometimes you just can’t find a friend to tell it too. Which is why I do these monologue
9. Add them on social media
Nowadays there are tons of social media platform you can use to connect with your crush, well unless they have one. But first you need to know which platform they are using during your intensive research, once you know, type in their full name and then add them as a friend or follow them. If they accept or follow you back, you can say that things are escalating pretty quick been you too. But do calm down, I know your hormones are raging at this point. You know you can casually like or comment a picture or two when they post, but don’t overdo it. This is a simple way and for sure they’ll notice you.
10. Befriend their friends
This is probably one of the best ways to get them to notice you because it’s actually really hard for them not to notice you. For example, if you are talking to their friend and your crush comes up to their friend, they are bound to notice you unless they are blind and deaf. Your success rate of getting notice is 100%, if they aren’t blind and deaf. I can guarantee that or your money back. Plus, you’ll get to see your crush more often. If you’re too shy to go up to them, then it’s a perfect opportunity to slowly move in towards them and get to know more about them. The information can also be useful for your research purposes of course.
If you’re interested, check out: “How to make someone miss you”
Overall, getting your crush to notice you isn’t that hard. Sometimes you just need to take the initiative to get yourself notice. Don’t try to complicate things. A simple “hi” and a smile goes a long way ladies and gentlemen. Make small talk with them. Sometimes after talking to them for a while, you might realize that they aren’t really that great anyway. After all crushes are crushes, they might not all work out. I mean, I have a list of like 42 crushes, they are all kind of more famous than me. Actually, like a lot more famous, so I probably can’t really even get pass their security to talk to them. Best bet is to moderately stalk them… online. But like Taylor Swift can I just get your autograph.