How to Get Your Crush to Like You

How to get your crush to like you if they don’t have feelings for you – The Reality

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Here, I will tell you 10 things you can do to get your crush to like you if they don’t have feelings for you. Feelings are created, they don’t just magically pop up. If you stay till the end, you’ll learn how to overcome some of the obstacles. Hope you will find this valuable and cheer up buddy you have nothing to lose.

1. Talk to your crush

The number one reason why you can’t get your crush to like you is because you don’t talk to them. Do they know you even exist? A simple “Hi, how’s it going” can go pretty far with them.

Check out: 10 easy conversation starters that always work

2. Dress up, be clean, be neat

In this case, you will need to dress to impress. You need to stand out from the crowd. Not a lot of people will find others attractive if they are disorganized and messy. Look your best because you are the best and desire the best.

3. Be nice

Okay I’m going to tell you. Nice guys or nice girls do not finish last and here is the reason why. In this scenario, I’m going to use guys for an example because we get picked on a lot for this. I’m going to tell you, nice guy will end up with a nice girl, therefore winning. In the long run, a nice guy and nice girl will stay longer together than some jerk with a nice girl. Because the nice girl will realize that the jerk wasn’t her cup of tea and therefore defaults back to a nice guy. Eventually getting marry and having babies. There’s no scientific backing to this. This is just solely base on my logic. I mean who doesn’t want someone to be nice?

Check out: How to be a nicer person with 10 tips

4. Find common interest

If you and your crush has something in common, they will more likely to be friendlier with you. Imagine you both really like going to the beach and you suggest going to the beach. You can bond over that and slowly develop your relationship from there. Pay attention what your crush is interested in and you will find more things to bond over.

5. Be fun and make your crush smile

Doing this will make your crush feel happy on the inside and also feel something special. People tend to hang around with others that makes them happy and willing to do fun things. Next time perhaps telling a funny story about yourself.

6. Flirt and be romantic with your crush

You will need to do this if you don’t want to be put in the friend zone. Once you’re in the friend zone, you will have a difficult time getting out. Do it and you’ll thank me later. Google how to flirt or how to be romantic immediately if you don’t know how.

7. Let your crush know that you’re interested in them

If you don’t say it, they won’t know. Some people don’t like to solve mysteries. You need to be blunt. But first, do develop a relationship with them before saying it. It’s kind of weird if you just met them and say “I like you.” That’s more like love at first sight. That’s along the line of lust and getting into a relationship like that typically don’t last long.

8. Respect them

Treat them the way you want to be treated. If you can’t respect people’s opinion and be nice to others, I doubt any relationship you have will last long. Respect is what makes relationship last and you will need that to win your crush’s heart.

If you like, check out: how to earn respect from people

9. Listen to them

If you’re a great listener, you’re probably 40% to their heart, already. If they want to rant, you listen. If they want to complain, you listen. If they want to breathe, you listen. Give them your attention and they’ll know that you are always there for them in their low points and high points in life.

10. Be yourself

If you want your crush to like you, be yourself. If you try to pretend to be someone that you’re not, you will eventually fail. You will hate every moment of it and be sad and miserable. Don’t try to change who you are because you have a crush on someone. If they don’t enjoy your company, then they aren’t worthy of you. You won’t know what your crush may like or not like about you, so just be yourself.

The Reality:

Okay here’s the reality. Let me get this straight. If it’s love at first sight, your relationship will not last long because you are just attracted to them because of their physical appearance. This lust you have towards your crush will unlikely result in a long-term relationship.

Now sometimes after doing the things listed here will not help you. This is not a 100% sure system to get your crush, but it gives you an edge to win their heart. Feelings are complicated and it’s really hard to understand. Your crush can simply not like you and you can’t change that. But one thing I can tell you is that if you think that your crush is your soul mate and you guys are really compatible with each other you will continue to fight and fight for them. The more time you spend with them and bond together it can potentially change their mind about you. You will have to be persistent and dedicated to win their heart.

If you agree that you simply like your crush because of their physical appearance, then it’s time to accept reality.

You need to accept the truth

They don’t feel the same way about you. They don’t answer your calls nor text and wants to be away from you. The signs are everywhere and it’s time you should just accept it.

You need to let your emotions out.

Cry if you need to cry. Talk to your friends if you need to talk. Take it out on a bucket of ice cream if you need to. Don’t let your emotions bottle up. Let them out. It will make you feel better, trust me, I’m human too.

You need to avoid them

Now in order for you to heal, you will need time and space from them. If you are deeply in love with someone, you can’t just be friends and act like nothing has happened. You will always have those feelings for them until you truly let them go. This means deleting their phone number. Avoid places they would likely be in and avoiding their social media profiles. But if you do see them, keep the conversation brief and professional.

You need to move on

Yes, I know this might be tough but you need to stop thinking that they’re the only fish for you. There’s plenty of fish out there. You need to have fun. Hang out with your friends. Do the things you like to do. Make sure you don’t lose control of yourself while in the process. Focus on your goals and be the person you want to be.

If you’re interested, check out: Top 10 ways on how to get over someone 

At the end of day, only time will tell heal yourself. There’s no magic pill or time machine to take or use. It’s a long process for you to heal and from this experience, I hope you will learn and be able to love yourself before loving others.