How To Get The Guy To Ask You Out
So, it’s that time again, whether it’s formal, prom, a date, or just trying to get a boyfriend. I know you that you probably don’t want to be single. If you do, it’s all good. The couple life isn’t meant for everyone anyways. So, you see a guy, he has potential. But he’s being a little cat about it because he might be a little bit too shy, indecisive, not interested or just trying to keep it cool so his friends doesn’t judge him. But what gives? Sometimes you just need to give him a little push and take matter to your own hand. If you just sit around and don’t interact with people at all, nothing is going to happen. But anyway, here’s 7 ways on how to get the guy to ask you out.
1. Get notice and start a conversation with him
First things first, before doing anything you need to get him to notice you. If you need help doing that I have a video on it. (How To Get Your Crush To Notice You). Once you get his attention, start a conversation with him. Start out with a simple “Hey.” I’m sure you could do that. Then follow up with “What are your plans for this weekend?” I can almost guarantee you that majority of the time you say that, they’ll have something to tell you. And the reason why I say that is because I might have asked about 15 random students at the most randomest places as a challenge on campus and surprisingly, they all gave me an answer. Granted a little over 50% said they were studying (psshhh what a nerd). But that doesn’t mean the conversation just ends there. You build off from each piece of information they provide. Like asking about what they are studying. How long they usually study for, do they find the class interesting or you can ask them to enlighten you about a subject. Yeah, I know I could be a little annoying at times and I can talk and talk. But this just proves my point that if a random stranger can share that with me, I’m pretty sure that the guy you’re about to talk to will do the same as well.
2. Flirt to get his attention
Flirting is a great way to hint at him to ask you out. You want to be playful. Tease him. And also, you need to avoid the friend zone. Find a way to get closer to him. Sometimes you just need to be bold and compliment him like you’re flirting. Here’s a basic example: “Omg, why do you look so amazing every day?” Through in a smile and wink while you’re at it. Dam if a girl did that to me, I’ll just melt like ice cube on a hot summer afternoon.
3. Use common interest to hint at him for a date
If both of you share the same interest for something, it’ll definitely make it easier for him to ask you out. For example, if you both like going to school events you could be like, “last year, I went to homecoming, it was great. This year I want to go again. Are you going?” Wink wink. Okay, if he didn’t get that hint, let’s kick it up a notch. Let’s say you both like the same type of music. And luckily you both like Ariana Grande, you could be like, “hey, so like I just randomly got these two Ariana Grande tickets. I don’t know if you’re interested in going, but like if you’re down. I’m down to go.” Okay maybe that a little bit too extreme because we all know you’re going to use your parents credit card to buy those tickets. Something more realistic would be like talk about food and hiking places you both like and willing to try.
4. Give him hints that you are ready for a relationship or a date
I said hint and not desperate. If you are able to get him to have a conversation with you and he seems somewhat interested, then you probably have the green lights to tell him what you want. I’m not saying that every guy is ready for commitment. I’m just saying that it doesn’t hurt to tell him before hand of what you want. Communication is key. Communicate that beforehand so things don’t get awkward and you guys don’t waste time on each other. I mean sometimes I don’t think my video ideas are that great anyways and I feel like I’m wasting your time but like you guys are still clicking and watching them. Wait…(click click) I’m just looking at my stats right now. I don’t even get a lot of views anyways. But I really want to thank the 1% of my subscribers that actually watch my videos to the end. It means a lot. And for the rest, I think they’re still bots.
5. Use your friends to be your wingman
Sometimes you could use a little help if things aren’t going your way. Get a friend to tease him about when he’s going to ask you out. Or stage a scene where one of your friends comes up to you both and be like “aww look at those two love birds.” Your friends would need to start dropping hints here and there, from time to time, to let him know that you’re still interested in him. Next thing you know it, she could be your maid of honor in your wedding.
6. Talk about your plans
If you want a date with a guy you need to let him know about your plans or your schedule. Because most guys don’t like rejections. Let him know when you’re taking your classes, when you’re working, what you usually do during the evenings, or if you have any big plans next week. Most importantly, let him know when you’re free. Or if you don’t have a date for the dance, yet. Just low-key tell him. “oh, by the way, I don’t have a date to the annual ball this year, but I’m really looking forward to it. So, I just wanted you to know.”
7. Work out to look more attractive
Now I normally don’t advise people to physically change their appearance like getting plastic surgery or getting those Kylie Jenner lips. But that’s all preferences. I’m not hating. I’m just more towards the natural stuff. But it doesn’t hurt to enhance your image to make you mentally and physically feel good about yourself. Now I can go on and on talking about the benefits of working out but this is not the video for it today. You wanna look good on a date. And rock that amazing dress that’s sitting in your closet or in that boutique shop. If you’re looking good, it’s just like a cherry on top. But really, it’s time to show him how exactly stunning and beautiful you are. Don’t doubt yourself. Like Nike, just do it.
Overall, if you’ve done all of this and you gave it plenty of time for him and just been waiting on him. And he still hasn’t asked you out. It’s okay just do everything together and you don’t even need to get him to ask you out. You’re basically together. Without the title. Like friends with benefits but without the benefits because you realize he likes rainbows. So there you have it, 7 ways on how to get the guy to ask you out.