How To Flirt With A Girl (Get The Date!)
So recently, I went out to a bar with my buddy. He spots a beautiful girl. A 10/10 to be exact. I looked like a 5 on that day so I didn’t want to do anything. He on the other hand looks like a 7 but he said he was feeling like a 9. I honestly think it was the alcohol talking. He goes up to her, buy her a drink and comes back with a phone number. Then it got me thinking. Huh I should make a video on how to flirt with girls. I kind of just wing these video topics every week and hope something pops up while I do grocery shopping or something. But anyway, here’s 10 quick tips on how to flirt with a girl.
1. Be fun and tease her
You don’t have to memorize a bunch of pickup lines or funny jokes just to impress the girl. That’s one way to go about it, but not all of us can recite it dozens of lines, okay maybe you can recite 1 or 2. But for starters, you can just smile. Laugh when it’s appropriate and have a good sense of humor. In addition, tease her in a way that peaks her interest and makes her laugh. Here are few teasing categories you could implement that’s great for any occasion. Giving her silly nicknames. Mimicking or mocking her. Stating something embarrassing or nerdy about her, but in a cute way. Roleplay with her. Initiating a challenge with her. Accusing her of hitting on you. So yeah, it’s playful and they might actually like it.
2. Find an excuse to touch her
Obviously do it if you feel like she’s comfortable with you and things are clicking for you guys. I honestly don’t want to get slap in the face, so yeah. So, do small gestures like touching her arm, touching her jewelry, sitting close to her, or brushing her hair behind her back will make your flirting skills seem smoother. For the best effect, let your hands linger around for a bit. And for the best cinematic effect, while still lingering your hands on her, slowly tilt your head up about 10 degrees more, and look her in the eye, pause for 5 seconds and slowly move your head towards her and go in for the kiss. Ha I’m kidding if only movies translate that well to real life. But seriously, if you could pull that one off, give me a shout out or comment down below.
If you’re interested, check out: “Top 10 physical signs a woman is interested in you”
3. Compliment her
When you notice something good about her, give her a compliment. It could be her ear rings, her necklace or her perfume. Make the compliment light and fun. But don’t come out sounding creepy and saying things like “hey, you have really soft hands… are your feet soft as well?” When in doubt to know what to say, pretend being a girl and give yourself the same compliment and see if it sounds creepy to you or just ask your friends. If you don’t have any friends, I could be your friend.
4. Do some late-night calls
If you are calling her at 2am in the morning and for some miraculous reason she answers. Then your flirty game is probably stronger than 90% of the guys who are watching this. You probably don’t need help, you need to go to church. For the rest of the guys here, strive for something early like 9pm or something. Actually, whatever works for you. These late-night conversations can evolve into something greater, building a stronger attraction towards each other. Soon or later, you’ll cross the line of being friends in no time. And you’ll be putting the word booty right next to call.
Check out: “How to talk to a girl you like”
5. Show positive body language
When interacting with a girl, lean in towards her to show you’re interested. Arms relaxed and not crossed to show that you’re not closing her off. Maintain eye contact but don’t stare her down. But remember to blink and look away occasionally, just for a split second tho. Show good posture with your back being straight and shoulders relaxed. And lastly, smile. If you don’t remember anything from this video. Just remember to smile. That’s all you will need in life.
6. Remember the small details about her
And bring it back up during your conversation. If you are able to listen to the girl and be able to recall what she said, it will show them that you’re attentive and interested. In addition, it’s actually pretty romantic if you are able to recall the details and surprising her with it. So, do make a point to remember them because it will definitely be useful in the future, whether it’s 5 minutes in the conversation, a few weeks in, or when it’s your first-year anniversary. Yeah that escalated pretty quick.
7. Be confident and relax
When you are approaching a girl, make sure to calm down first. For beginners, take huge breaths in and slowly exhale. It’ll calm down your nerves and help you stay focus. And don’t overthink it. Don’t slouch, stand tall. Girls do like a tall guy. I’m just saying. Girls can sense if you’re confident or not. If you fail at first, then oh well. It’s a lesson learn.
8. Make her feel good about herself
Sometimes when you’re flirting with a girl, you want to make her feel like she’s the Queen and that she’s important. If she’s also into you, she’ll like it and flirt right back at you. Don’t go in talking about yourself and try to boost your ego. Leave your ego at the gym. That time isn’t your time, it’s her time if you actually want something to happen.
Check out: “How to make someone feel special”
9. Get some alone time with her
If she’s hanging around with a friend or two, your best bet is to have a wingman with you so he can distract them and you’ll have some alone time with the girl. When you’re alone with her, you’ll be able to see how she is and possibly see her true personality. This way you’ll get a better idea of her and whether if you’re interested in spending more time with her. Sometimes it’s not always about the looks guys, it’s what’s deep down inside, her heart.
10. Make plans together
I saved this for last because this is probably the last thing you should do. So ultimately the reason why you’re flirting with her is because you want her and potentially be with her. If that’s the case, you should definitely have something in mind before hand of what you want to do or where you want to go. To the movies, the museum, affordable McDonalds, hotel, I mean to your room, I mean to your bed. Whatever works for you. Also, expect to get the bill since you’re asking her out on a date. If she offers to pay half of the bill, don’t try to start an argument with her, that’s just means that she’s independent and that she doesn’t need you to support her. She’s probably a keeper then. But lowkey tell her to pay for the house once you guys get marry.
If you’re interested, check out these: 20 cheap date ideas.
Overall, when you flirt with girls you might not get a positive response every time. And if you do, you’re probably really hot and sexy. With that chisel chin and six pack. God dammm. But looks will only get you so far. On a side note, don’t be desperate and try too hard, people can sense that. And if a girl says no then it means no. Again “no” mean “no.” So be respectful and don’t be a jerk. Oh, by the way the phone number that my friend got was a fake number. So yeah someday you win and some days you lose.