So, let’s say you have this crush, specifically a girl, and you just don’t know how to deal with it. You like her but you don’t know if she likes you back. And you’ve been thinking about this for a while. If you’re not sure where she stands with you, do this to see if she likes you. These 7 methods are general enough that anyone could apply, but of course, this is assuming you both already know each other. Then you’ll at least get to know her better and know what she’s thinking.
1. Send her a long message.
Instead of the surface-level chit-chat, shoot your shot and send her a long message about something deeper. It could be about a dilemma you’re having or your thoughts on a serious topic. Get into the details and make sure this message is at least a couple of sentences long. Then, evaluate her response. If someone you like sends you a detailed message right back, you now have a chance to engage in deeper conversation with them. If she sends you a short response or gives half of the effort you did in the conversation, she probably isn’t interested in having a deeper conversation. But if she responds with the same level of detail, promoting more conversation, then there’s a great chance that she likes you. And a cherry on top would be if she also messages you back fast.
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2. Ask her to hang out one-on-one.
Turn up the intimacy and ask this girl to hang out with you, and you alone. Be a little assertive and do something that couples would do, have a picnic at the park, or go ice staking. Or you can give her a couple of options. But make half of the options neutral and the other half more romantic, and see what she picks. If she automatically chooses a friend-zone activity, like hanging out with a group of friends, then she probably doesn’t have the same feelings as you do with her.
3. Get close to her physically.
This doesn’t mean to get all up in her business and corner her like a creep. What I mean is to get closer to her, like sitting next to her, having your arm brush hers, things like that. See how she responds. If she pulls away, it’s probably a no for you. If she stays where she is and allows the contact, then she may like you. Another way to tell is by asking her to be your work partner. If it’s for class or just for work, specifically ask her to be your partner. If she says yes without a heartbeat, then it’s a sign she likes you. So do this to see if she likes you.
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4. See if she would help you with a boring task.
Ask this girl to do a boring task with you. Depending on her interests, this could be walking across town to do some errands, cleaning, watching paint dry, or anything. The only way a girl would waste her free time doing something lame with you is if YOU’RE there doing the lame task and if she’s down like Charlie brown and willing to help you out, then she likes you.
5. Ask her what she would look for if she was going out on a date.
As a hypothetical situation, ask her what kind of person she’s looking for. If she likes you, she’s going take the chance to describe her perfect guy or you. From physical traits to personality, she will highlight the things she likes about you – without saying it’s about you, of course. If instead, you find her describing some other guy you know or the complete opposite of you, don’t get your hopes up. And this is a good way to see if she likes you.
6. Invite her to sit by you at a group hangout.
When we start liking someone, we may not have the confidence to just go out there and flirt with them. So, make it easy for her by allowing her to take the first step, which is inviting her to sit next to you in a group setting or any event. Wave her over and offer her a seat next to you. A girl who likes you will be excited to be closer to you, but if she’s indifferent towards you, she may find an excuse saying she’s busy doing something over there or that she’s okay and she can stand. And of course, this all depends on the type of hangout or event you’re going.
7. Tease her.
Calling her ugly and stealing her stuff is called bullying, and it’s wrong. Calling her silly and openly taking one of her skittles could be categorized as flirting, of course, if she doesn’t stop you. This is done once you guys have an established friendship or connection. Tease her about something she is confident about; you don’t want to poke any insecurities.
For example, if you know she got an A-plus on her test, joke around with her and say something like, “Man I knew I should’ve slept on the textbook so I could absorb the information quicker, like how you did the other day at the library.” And of course, make sure it is light-hearted and you follow it up with a laugh. Her reaction to your teasing will tell you how she feels. If she gets offended or rolls her eyes at your attempt, then she probably doesn’t like you and thought that you’re just annoying. If she follows your lead and even teases you back, then she probably likes you. And of course, if you both get along and always be laughing at each other’s jokes, then there’s a good chance she likes you even more than a friend. So now you know what to do to see if she likes you.
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Conclusion:
Overall, doing one of these tests might not give you a good idea on how to tell if she likes you. But if you are able to group them together and use multiple methods, then there’s a good chance, you’ll be able to find out if she likes you or not. And of course, this works well if you are already friends and not just a totally random person that she doesn’t know. So there you have it, 7 things you can do to see if she likes you.