You ever get a song stuck in your head for days on end? I’ve been hearing “Don’t stop believing” in my mind for a good 48 hours now. While songs could get annoying, having a person stuck in your head may be beneficial. It means they’re important to you and this could lead to deeper connections and conversations in the future. That’s why you need to hear about these 8 things that’ll get you stuck in her head. Do this! She won’t stop thinking about you – trust me.
1. Take her on a date she’ll never forget.
Netflix and chill is for the noobs. Unforgettable dates are where it’s at. You’ll have fun, she’ll have fun, and the memory will be the most exciting thing on her mind since last year’s music festival. Get out of your basic hometown or find somewhere within it that’s new or has never been explored. Think picnics, outdoor adventures, candlelit surprises, and other crafty environments. My best date ever was with a guy named Dan from Montana. We barely knew each other and he suggested going for a 5 am hike to watch the sunrise over an ocean cliff. Amazing date. I’m not dating Dan now, but I still think about this date 8 years later! You go, Dan.
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2. Surprise her with a heartfelt gift.
Chocolates and flowers are nice, but how many times have we seen this gift? Hundreds? Thousands? A bundle of hand-picked wildflowers or a bunch of her favorite flowers scattered in a message on her front lawn, though? Or, how about her favorite sweets in an assortment you put together? Now, that’s more unique. Pick a gift and make it one-and-only and heartfelt. Add a message and be sure it’s a surprise. She’ll be talking about it for days and every other gift she receives will fall short in comparison.
3. Get it right the first time.
First impressions are important. If you fail or fall short at the beginning of your relationship with this girl, it could ruin your chances altogether. A lesson I’ve learned over the years is that the disappointments you see at the beginning of a relationship really set the tone for the rest of it. That’s why it’s so important to get it right the first time. Be honest, be open, and be clear about what you want. If you can communicate the right way from the get-go and click with her, she won’t be able to get enough of you.
4. Send her a sweet message out of the blue.
If you’re thinking of her, let her know with a short and sweet text in the middle of the day. This is the moment to be sappy and sweet. Get your inner romantic out. This should be during a time you two aren’t talking so she knows she’s on your mind. You never know, she might just say she was thinking of you too! I know surprise messages like these leave me cheesin’ throughout the day and thinking of the person who sent it.
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5. Try out an adrenaline-packed activity together.
Our caveman-created fight or flight response to exciting events means they get recorded in detail in our minds. If you drive to work for 20 minutes and nothing happens, you won’t remember much of your drive. If you almost die in a car accident on your way to work, though, you’ll likely remember it for life and think of it oftentimes while driving. The same goes for any adrenaline-packed adventure. Of course, don’t drive like a maniac with her and call it an adventure. Think about going paintballing, go-karting, boating, rock climbing, or things like that.
6. Show her your dedication.
If you have a passion or goal you’re striving towards, focus on that in your next conversation with her. Of course, be sure to ask her about her life as well, but you must be associated with something central and interesting in your life. Unless you’re a stunningly handsome individual, I probably won’t remember a 2-minute conversation we had about your favorite sports team in a month. If you spoke to me for two minutes about how you want to solve illiteracy in Sierra Leone, however, it’s a topic that would probably stick with me for life. I would think of this conversation every time I thought of you, and I would also think of you every time I saw something related to students reading. Passion is both memorable and inspiring.
7. Be positive and uplifting.
Another important aspect of your conversation with this girl is showing off your personality. If you are positive and uplifting, others will gravitate towards you – her included. This makes you a safe person to talk with when she’s feeling down and out, and this is exactly what women look for in a boyfriend or partner. Take a minute and really think about the most negative person you know in your life. Done? Ok, now pay attention to the face you just made. I’m sure it was something like a grimace. By being positive and uplifting, she’ll have the opposite of that expression on her face when she’s thinking about you. And, come on, who doesn’t love to smile?
8. Share what makes you unique.
What’s your skill? How about a quirk? Are there any fun facts about yourself that you use when you play the game “2 truths and a lie?” Sharing unique facts about yourself will make you stand out and she’ll be wondering about you for time to come.
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Conclusion:
Alright, you unique, passionate, wonderful guy. It’s time to break out a few of these strategies and get your memory stuck in her mind. If you’ve made it to the end of this video, you’ve probably got her stuck on your mind as well. Think about the things that make her memorable and you can use some of these strategies as well – but only if you share them in the comments!