If you’re a supermodel, you probably don’t want everyone constantly telling you that you’re attractive and beautiful all the time and then following you. It’ll just be annoying. But for those who aren’t like a model or a celebrity, we don’t have people constantly telling us that. The truth is, you don’t have to be a supermodel or out-of-this-world celebrity to be beautiful. You can be a down-to-earth, normal person and still have a flock of people thinking you are attractive. They might not straight up tell you, because first, it might be kind of weird just popping up and saying that you are attractive. And second, normal people don’t say that to everyone, they just keep it to themselves. But if that’s the case, how do we know if they think you are attractive? Well, here are the 8 signs people secretly find you attractive.
1. They flock towards you in any setting.
If your school or work setup requires group work, you’ll be one of the first with a long list of potential people to partner up with. Likewise, if you are in a new social setting, it seems easy for you to find new people who want to talk with or listen to you. Attractive people are attractive for a reason… they ATTRACT others. Like a bee to honey, you’ll be the sweetest thing in their life.
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2. People get awkward around you.
It seems like people either get a sudden fever around you, or they have ants in their pants and don’t know it. Attractive people make others nervous. Imagine how you feel around your crush. Well, that’s how others might feel around you. The less they know you, the more flustered they seem. Darting looks, lots of body movements, nervous laughter, and flushed faces are just a few signs to look out for when people are around you as well.
3. You get a lot of casual and random DMs.
If people secretly find you attractive, you may find these same people reaching out to you in unconventional ways. People you barely interact with, or even people you’ve never talk to, might be sneaking into your messages on Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, or any other social media platform they can find you in. They’ll probably try the casual conversation of asking you about your day, leading up to the more courageous statement, saying “we should hang out sometime!” When you see those DMs, this is one of the best signs to know that people secretly find you attractive and likes you.
4. People are shocked if you share an insecurity.
If you have the confidence to share a little about your insecurities with someone, you can tell if they find you attractive depending on their reaction. If they show empathy and agree with you, they’re just a good friend. But if they are in shock and disbelief that YOU, you of all people, could be insecure, it’s not that they are dismissing your feelings, it’s that they truly can’t believe someone so attractive would have insecurities. If you want to be sure, ask them why they reacted that way, and you’re sure to hear it for yourself something along the lines of, “because you look great!”
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5. You receive two extremes of interaction.
People either seem to love you or hate you. Some people are overly friendly and the others are mean. For the overly friendly ones, they are just great to be around and hang out with. But for the mean ones, they are most likely just jealous of you being attractive because attractive people usually get all the attention, and because of this, the jealous one feels like they are always left out or that they see you as a threat.
6. People value your opinion over others.
While you have the brains to back your opinions up most of the time, no one is right all of the time. Even so, people are more likely to trust those they find attractive. Studies found that physically attractive workers are more likable by employers! The same can be said among peers and colleagues. Better faces are thought to have better brains. Is it true? Definitely not. Do we all think it subconsciously? Absolutely.
7. People raise their eyebrows when looking at you.
Raising your eyebrows isn’t just to show surprise. It’s actually the way we show a friendly attitude non-verbally. It goes hand in hand with a smile. You don’t do it on purpose; It’s a natural human reaction when we are open to what we’re seeing or hearing. Second, it is also a subconscious attempt to open our eyes wider in order to see something or somebody that attracted our attention. Basically, if you see eyebrows being lifted, they are indeed interested.
8. You turn heads!
The easiest way to catch someone or to see if they secretly find you attractive is if they are eyeing you when you walk past them or if they are staring at you from afar. Again, this is just a natural thing people tend to do because if someone or something is beautiful we tend to want to look at them or it a little longer. If it’s not appealing to the eye, we will subconsciously just look over it and go on with our day, right?
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Conclusion:
Overall, did you find that some of these signs resonated with you? If yes, that’s awesome! If not, I want to remind you that beauty is both in the eye of the beholder and only skin deep. This list doesn’t get into how you know someone is attracted to you internally, which is really the long-lasting complement in the game. Oftentimes these signs of attraction can start to appear when the person has already known you on a deeper level, connecting with your character and personality. So, no matter which boat you find yourself in, don’t forget that attraction is subjective, and being a good person will attract more people than anything else. So, there you have it 8 signs people secretly find you attractive.