Hey there, handsome! Yes, I’m talking to you! I think you know you’re a sight for sore eyes, but you want to make sure she thinks the same thing. If she isn’t brave enough to compliment you to your face, no problem – just look out for these 7 signs she thinks you’re good looking.
1. She can’t hold eye contact with you for long.
Holding eye contact for more than a second or two is a lot. It doesn’t sound like much, but this could be intense even between friends, and ten times more so if one person makes the other nervous. We tend to look away from people who make us nervous because they intimidate us or because we like them. So, which is the case if this girl can’t hold your gaze? Well, are you a highly-educated professional? Are you her boss? Are you her teacher? Gosh, I hope not, but if you are, she might just be intimidated. If you don’t hold a position of power and she simply gets frazzled by your glance, it could be attraction instead. Add in raised eyebrows or dilated pupils and she definitely finds you to be a hot tamale.
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2. She blushes if you look at her without speaking.
If you spot this girl from across the room, down the hall, or even pause a conversation as you’re standing next to each other, pay attention to how she reacts when you look at her without saying a word. You could smile at her if it comes naturally and, if she blushes, this is a pretty big sign she finds you attractive. Blushing is caused by a rush of adrenaline that opens up our blood vessels, and – speaking for the ladies – what better way to cause adrenaline than by feeling those little butterflies that a handsome guy can give us?
3. She slowly makes her way to you when you’re in a group.
I’m not going to lie, I’m pretty direct when it comes to finding someone attractive. If I’m single and see a handsome guy in a group, I’m going to make my way over sooner rather than later to chat with him. Whether you’re as extroverted as I am or an introverted girl instead, we can probably agree that there’s something like a magnet hidden under a handsome man. Women want to be near him, even if they don’t plan on speaking with him, because of the air of confidence and cuteness he exhibits.
4. She likes your (solo) pictures.
If you’re friends on social media, you could also try uploading a pic or two to see if she takes the bait and gives it a like. These pictures must be only of you – no family, friends, or pets included – and it’s got to be kind of boring. Don’t post your accomplishment because anyone could like it as a “congratulations” move and don’t post a beautiful background because she could just like the view and not the person in it. Post a boring selfie or solo pic and keep an eye out for her name in the “likes” column.
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5. She goes out of her way to see you if she’s dresses up.
Every woman has her extra gorgeous days. Maybe she has a special event going on later, bought a complimentary outfit, or just woke up feeling extra-confident. If this girl thinks you’re attractive and got out of the house dressed up, she’s going to run into you so you can see her as attractive too. I’m not going to act like I didn’t stop by my crush’s place of work in the past to ask about something generic as I showed off a fire look. Yeah, I did that.
6. She mirrors your body language.
Mirroring someone’s body language is when you subconsciously copy another person’s movements during a conversation. You can test this out by leaning forward, clasping your hands together, or tilting your head and seeing if she does the same a few seconds later. This behavior shows comfort and attraction to the person opposite of you – but it isn’t always physical. To make sure she really finds you to be a cutie-patootie, pair this sign with at least two more off the list.
7. She physically flirts with you.
Flirting is defined as playful behavior that shows you’re physically attracted to someone. We can flirt with someone we know nothing about or with someone we have known for ten years, but the bottom line is that we think they’re good looking. Look for the classic flirtatious behavior, like when she brushes her hand on your arm or back, laughs and smiles often with you, plays with her hair, leans forward, bites her lips, or teases you.
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Conclusion:
It’s not always easy to know if a girl thinks your good looking or if she’s just into your personality. If you thought you two clicked but you didn’t relate to many of these signs, don’t worry – lots of great relationships start as friendships, after which the attraction grows. If you did manage to relate to a ton of these signs, then you’re probably riding the confidence train right now and there’s nothing wrong with that. Let me know your next move in the comments!