You’re trying to figure out if she wants you for real, for real. Here are 27 obvious signs she wants you for more than just a friend – but be sure she shows you at least five of these to confirm you’re the apple of her eye.
1. She compliments you every time she sees you.
Your hair, clothes, smile, or something else is always top-notch in her book. Even if you don’t look that great.
2. She sends you “good morning” or “good night” texts.
You get these most days of the week and – let’s be honest – they make you feel mushy inside.
3. She is touchy-feely when other girls are around.
This girl is marking her territory, and she wants everyone to know it.
4. She cracks up at your jokes – even the bad ones.
Come on dude, even you know that you’re not that funny.
5. She likes at least three of your social media posts in a row.
In one sitting, this girl double-tapped like on at least three of your photos, pics, or stories. And they might not even be part of your top 20 posts. That’s interest in the 21st century for you.
6. She buys you your favorite things.
Whether it’s a snack or a trinket that made her think of you, little surprises are the sweetest ones.
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7. She calls or texts you every day.
If she can’t go a day without speaking to you, she’s ready to date you.
8. She dresses up when she knows you’ll see her.
She’s always looking to catch your eye, and if you catch her on a day she didn’t expect to see you she’ll be as frazzled as a newborn deer.
9. She writes you notes or letters.
Handwritten things are the romantic gesture of the past, and she knows it.
10. She tries to get you to open up.
If you’re vulnerable, she will be too – and she knows that’s the basis of a relationship.
11. She shows interest in your hobbies.
She asks about what you like – even if it’s something anti-her like video games or sports. She’ll really put in effort here.
12. She constantly asks for your advice or opinion.
And she’ll probably do the thing you suggest.
13. She invites you to hang with her friends and/or family.
Showing you to her inner circle shows she hopes you’ll stick around. I mean, would you bring someone you didn’t like around your family?
14. She remembers all of the little things.
She’ll also follow up and make sure you’re happy no matter what’s going on.
15. She checks in on you when she doesn’t hear from you.
Kind of like a cute worry wart.
16. She flirts with you – often.
She’s always giggling, touching her hair, touching your arm, or smiling at you. And you know she doesn’t do that with every other guy.
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17. She shares things with you that she thinks you would like.
Whether it’s memes, videos, or events – she’s always thinking of you and makes sure you know it.
18. She immediately notices a change in your demeanor or appearance.
Fresh cut, new shirt, or change of cologne? She notices faster than your mom does.
19. If you’re in a room together, she’ll find a reason to get close to you.
It’s like the opposite of a pandemic – she is always less than six feet apart.
20. Her friends smile or laugh and look at her when you enter the room.
They know.
21. She focuses on you when there are other guys in the room.
You’re number one, no competition.
22. She blushes or fidgets whenever you talk to her.
Especially if you tease her. No matter how much time you spend together, she can’t help but gush.
23. She makes time for you no matter what.
She’ll reschedule her plans to make it work. You’re number one.
24. She starts learning about something you like.
And she does it just so she can connect more with you and bring it up in conversation.
25. She knows more about you than you’ve shared.
Admit it – we all stalk social media. Especially when we have a crush.
26. She finds excuses to touch you.
From a flirtatious hand on the back to hugging hello, she’ll try it.
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27. She says it!
Be it text, call, or in person – she straight up tells you she’s into you!
Ok… so how many does she tick off? Let me know in the comments!