Beauty is fleeting. It’s here one day and gone the next, and this idea has been recognized for thousands of years. Sure, every man may turn an eye towards a beautiful woman, but he will only stay turned towards her if there’s more than meets the eye. Here are the 15 surprising things men like in women more than beauty.
1. Kindness.
Kindness is important in a partner because it creates a foundation of compassion and empathy, building the supportive environment that a relationship needs to thrive. It gives this guy a sense of safety and understanding, allowing both him and his girl to freely express themselves and build trust. Not only that, but it also enhances the overall well-being of both individuals, creating a harmonious dynamic, and overall leading to greater satisfaction in any friendship or partnership. By the way, this kindness should not only be geared towards him; he’ll also be on the lookout to see how she treats others. If you’d like to start upping your kindness today, you could start by liking and subscribing to help a channel out! You’re the best either way!
2. Emotional intelligence.
Emotional intelligence is like having a secret decoder ring for your partner’s emotions – no more guessing games or being lost in the haze of emotional confusion. It’s like having a built-in relationship GPS that helps navigate the twists and turns of feelings, ensuring that this guy doesn’t end up in an emotional traffic jam. He wants a partner who can read between the lines of his ups and downs and respond accordingly, and this is where the girl will need emotional intelligence. I’d like to say that I have a decent E.I. and displayed it with a guy I used to date. He didn’t have a good grasp on how to process his anger, but I helped him navigate his feelings and express them more healthily. He was always appreciative of this and thanked me for it.
Emotional intelligence is also key if you want a serious relationship. By the way, we also have a video called What Makes a Serious Relationship that could shed some light on that topic. Onto number three!
3. A sense of humor.
This guy would love to have a personal comedian on call 24/7 ready to turn even the most boring day into a hilarious anecdote, but he isn’t a millionaire yet. Instead, he’ll be content with a girl who he can laugh with, whether it’s because she’s funny or by watching something enjoyable together. When he accidentally puts salt in his coffee or trips over his own shoelaces, he’ll want someone who can laugh with him and not at him and vice versa.
4. Empathy.
Everybody has those days, and by those days I mean bad days. If this guy can find a girl who changes a grumpy afternoon into a bearable one by simply saying something like “I get it, let’s eat pizza and relax for the night,” then that’s someone who can become his safety blanket for the day, allowing him to recharge and get back out there tomorrow.
5. Compassion.
Well, he may or may not enjoy it if you pull out some pom-poms and shout “You’ve got this!” but he will appreciate some compassion and support when he’s going through tough times. Life is known to throw curveballs, and it’s important to have a partner who is going to help you catch them instead of watching you get hit in the face with them. One of my guy friends used to have an ex that was cold as ice. She was super pretty, but she would always tell him to man up when he was going through something rough. He ended up leaving her and finding someone who was caring and who tried to make his tough days better. That’s what a man will look for in his woman.
6. Loyalty.
Nobody wants to be with someone that they doubt. Enough said.
7. Ambition.
Most guys with ambition or unrealized potential will appreciate a woman who has ambition, motivation, and a go-getting attitude. Having a partner like this helps turn dreams into actions, so this guy will get to envision and create a life with his girlfriend or future wife and propel the relationship to new heights.
8. Humility.
Humility is key to preventing egos from inflating, keeping both partners grounded even through stormy arguments. Have you ever resolved an argument with a big-ego individual? If so, tell me about it in the comments because I’m pretty sure it’s nearly impossible! Humility, on the other hand, deflates unnecessary conflicts, stops drama in its tracks, and allows both people to understand each other more deeply. Unless this guy is narcissistic, he’ll appreciate humility and try to return it. Even if you’re one confident gal, remember that you aren’t better than the next person when it comes down to human value.
9. Confidence.
Confidence is like a secret sauce that magically transforms awkward moments into stylish dance moves, making you the coolest cat in any room… OK, maybe that’s not exactly true, but it does give any woman an air of power, releasing her inner awesomeness and showing that she’s in charge of her life. Who wouldn’t love that?
10. Authenticity.
When a guy finds an authentic girl, he can also be his true self around her. This means no judgment, full acceptance, and an honesty policy that will help grow any relationship to its potential.
11. Open-mindedness.
The opposite of open-mindedness is a girl who sits there and judges everything that isn’t exactly how she is. Guys will come with their weaknesses, and they want to know that the girl they’re dating is open to hearing their ideas, worries, and plans. It’s all about open communication, and that starts with open-mindedness.
12. Intelligence.
Tell me a joke and I’ll laugh for a few seconds, but talk to me about something, deep and meaningful and we could be chatting away for hours. A high level of intelligence will be appreciated by any mature man with more than a few brain cells, and it is something that will last through the decades, unlike a Kim Kardashian face.
13. Passion.
Passion is like a secret ingredient and personality that sets someone apart, lights up their eyes, and adds a little sizzle to who they are. When we talk about boring things, the boringness resonate on our faces, tone, and environment. When we bring out the passion, everything is instantly more exciting and attractive.
14. Resilience.
Sometimes life gets tough, and relationships are no different. A guy will appreciate a woman with resilience because it helps both her and him navigate the ups and downs of life. Think of it as a personal armor that shields a partnership from self-doubt, setbacks, and obstacles.
15. Effective communication.
Even men get tired of cryptic texts or confusing Snapchat filters. Effective communication is being real and upfront with someone, preventing awkward misunderstandings, like mistaking Netflix and chill for an actual documentary marathon with cuddling… Oops! Men prefer to avoid being caught in a world where emojis speak louder than words, so he prefers that you say it how it is respectfully and effectively.
Conclusion:
Remember – while beauty may catch a man’s eye initially, it’s the deeper qualities that keep him interested in a woman. These qualities create a strong foundation for a healthy and thriving relationship. So, ladies, don’t just focus on your looks, but also work on developing these other traits that will make you a great partner; not only for a man, but for yourself! In any case, you’re already awesome as is and, as always, thanks for watching.