Did you know that most communication is nonverbal? Most of the time, we can actually get across a point without speaking a word. That’s why there are plenty of ways to attract a guy without saying anything at all, if you’re a girl. From your facial expressions to body language, you can get his attention without even introducing yourself. And, no, you don’t need to be twerking in the middle of the party to do so. So, if you’re the opposite gender or not, here are 10 ways to attract a guy without saying anything.
1. The 3-second look.
Most people decide if an online post or video is worth looking at within three seconds. First impressions can be made in less than ten seconds. The average human attention span is only 12 seconds. While they seem small, seconds make a big impact. If you look at someone for longer than 3 seconds it’s okay, you won’t be labeled as creepy, but for some reason when guys do it longer than 3 seconds, it’s creepy. But no doubt you’ll get their attention if you keep looking at them.
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2. Wear red.
Red has been shown to catch people’s attention. Think about it; how many big companies and brands use red in their logos? A ton. Red is just one way to make yourself stand out from the crowd to attract this guy’s attention. No matter the color or style you choose, make sure to own your look. Choose something that is comfortable and stylish to make yourself feel good while others feel attracted.
3. Walk with confidence.
From the moment you step into the room, make sure to walk with confidence. This includes standing up straight, walking with purpose, smiling, and making eye contact with others. Take big steps and make sure you aren’t fidgeting by keeping your hands swaying naturally. And, perhaps most importantly of all, avoid holding or looking at your phone! Nowadays, this is used as a social crutch to avoid feeling awkward in public locations, but all it really does is make you look insecure and antisocial.
4. Glance and smile.
There’s nothing quite as direct and intriguing as a smile from a stranger. Of course, we then hope they look away because usually we are caught off guard or embarrassed. Find the guy you want to attract and choose a moment to smile at him – when he’s looking, of course! After a quick second or two, glance away, even if he smiles back. The key is not to smile until he makes eye contact, so he knows your smile is directed at him and not from something you heard a moment ago. And this will surely get his attention.
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5. Use your hands.
Now we are keeping things PG here. Nothing inappropriate. This guy may already be attracted to you from afar, so it’s your chance to go up to him or walk pass him and give him a light punch on his shoulder without saying anything and walk away. For sure he’ll remember it and might be chasing you down for answers.
6. Show off your skills.
If you have a particular set of skills. Use it. But use it in front of him, it could be playing the piano, drinking apple juice really fast, or you can draw really well. Show it off, it’ll get his attention, and perhaps even connect with you, and that’s when his attraction to you can kick in. This is probably one of the best ways to attract a guy without saying anything.
7. Play with your hair, wave, wink.
When you catch this guy glancing your way, make sure you’re adding movement to whatever you’re doing. You could start off by lightly playing with your hair. If you catch him looking again, try and give a little wave. Don’t be shocked if he looks away – this is sure to surprise him! He just needs to recollect his cool and return. If you’re on the braver side, you could even shoot him a wink from across the room. You’ll have a good shot that he’ll laugh and make his way towards you. I’m just saying, if you’re a girl, it’s easy. That’s what my friend said.
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8. Laugh.
Laughter is a common interaction that promotes social bonding. Even if we aren’t close enough to hear what’s going on, laughter attracts attention and makes you wish you were in the heart of the action. A guy will hear and be attracted to your laugh, associating you with joy and a sense of humor. Stick to genuine laughs, though… no one wants to hear those fake evil laughs.
9. Smell good.
If you had to sit next to either a pile of garbage or a patch of daisies, I’m going to bet you’ll choose the daisies. If you smell good, you’ve just gave yourself extra points, because guys like a good smell. And if your scent is unique enough and he tells you that you smell good, he’s already programmed that scent to you. So whenever, you leave things behind and he smells your scent, you’ll know for sure he’s thinking about you.
10. “Accidentally” bump into him.
You know those movies or shows when a girl is holding a stack of folders or books and the girl accidentally bumps into the guy and they both lock eyes for a moment in shock. Yeah, just like that. Fake a moment like that. You don’t need to talk or say anything, hopefully, the guy helps you pick up the papers or books and at that point, you probably just created a bond with him. You got this attention, and the next time he sees you, he’ll for sure know you.
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Conclusion:
Overall, like I said in my other video if you want the attraction to be more long-term and lasting, talking to them would be your best method, because that creates a deeper bond. But if you’re a decent girl, I probably don’t need to say this, but you’ll get most of the guys in the room. Most guys are just easily attracted to girls that’s all. And props to you for watching this all the way to the end, because in reality, if you just wave at a guy and give them some attention, they’ll be all up on you. I’m just saying. So there you have it 10 ways to attract a guy without saying anything.