High-value men are one of a kind. That’s why they’re easy to spot – kind of like a diamond among a bunch of coal. There are 10 things women instantly notice about high-value men to make them diamonds, and these are the things that make them such an attractive option as partners. Let’s dive into these 10 things today to see if any of them resonate with you, or to see which ones you can start to incorporate so you can become a high-value man yourself.
1. He knows what he wants and goes for it.
High-value men live lives of clarity. They know what they want and do what’s needed to get it. One of the highest high-value men I know is my uncle Andy. This guy sets a goal and kills it every single time. It isn’t just a streak of luck, because he’ll always have a plan and stick to it or adapt it until he reaches his goal. You’ll never notice a high-value man wandering around aimlessly or lost, no, no. He’s going to know what he wants and he’s going to go for it, full throttle.
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2. He’s self-aware and holds himself accountable.
A high-value man knows what makes him tick and works to improve it. He’s human, so he’s going to have emotions and challenges just like you and I, but the difference is how he deals with them. There’s a lot of introspection involved as he works to understand his way of communicating and improve it. Women are quick to notice this because they have a special perception when it comes to emotions and reactions to sensitive situations.
3. He is reliable.
High-value men are distinguished from the rest because you can count on them no matter what. Their word is like gold, so you’re never left wondering or bamboozled by something they do or say. It’s a sigh of relief to many women who have been disappointed, lied to, or even ghosted in the past. With high-value men, women don’t have to fear. There’s no difference between what they tell you and what they deliver.
4. He’s financially savvy.
One-third of Americans don’t have an emergency fund and a solid half of them have intense consumer debt created by excessive, unnecessary spending. A high-value man, on the other hand, understands that his net worth is not his personal worth but is connected to other parts of his life and reflects his decision-making abilities. He’ll be financially savvy, which doesn’t mean that he’s wealthy – although he could be. Instead, this means he spends his money responsibly, has a savings plan, and knows how to have fun without keeping up with the Joneses.
5. He’s generous.
High-value men also have strong morals and value ethics. They prioritize giving, helping others, and participating in a greater cause. You’ll catch them volunteering their time or being generous economically, especially to those in the service industry or to whoever is less fortunate.
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6. He sets healthy boundaries.
A high-value man is mature – there’s no way around it. He’s going to know how to balance his personal life with his professional life, never falling into the trap of addiction or letting one part of his life control all of the others. The same is true for his relationships; he knows how to be as dedicated to his partner as he is to his personal goals, balancing everything carefully as it comes.
7. He values self-improvement.
This guy is always going to be reaching for the next post on the ladder of success, whether that be in his career or personal life. You’ll find him working on his physical health, reading, taking a course, or just overall reflecting on his life and trying to make it better any time of the year. He’s got his 1-year, 5-year, and lifelong goals list ready at the drop of a hat.
8. He is emotionally intelligent.
Emotional intelligence is being able to respond to a situation as objectively and calmly as possible, even when emotions or tensions run high. Just as women will quickly notice an aggressive man and steer clear of him, women will also notice a high-value man with high emotional intelligence and flock toward him.
9. He takes care of himself, physically and mentally.
High-value men incorporate exercise into their daily or weekly routine as well as some sort of activity to help reset and calm their minds. In the same way, they try to balance their life and personal boundaries, they understand the importance of taking care of the vessel that is their body.
10. He displays confidence.
High-value men know that they have a high value, but not from others – this comes from within. There’s a fine line between confidence and cockiness, though, which a high-value man demonstrates by being sure of himself without stepping on anybody else in the process.
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Conclusion:
It’s hard to have all 10 characteristics that we’ve mentioned here today, and many high-value men could still be working on a few – yourself included. The good thing is that anyone can be of high value so long as they are actively working on improving themselves inside and out, while also being genuine and connecting with others. If there’s anything else you notice about high-value men, share it with me in the comments.