Sometimes we don’t like to show our feelings to people. We might appear one way, but behave really different in certain situations. Certain actions and words could have hidden meanings, which makes it tricky to know a person’s true intention. For instance, if you’ve been talking to a girl and you started to develop feelings for her, but you aren’t really sure if she likes you back because she’s on and off with you. Well, here are 10 subtle signs she likes you.
1. Her voice gets softer around you.
A girl who is yelling might be either A) being obnoxious or B) trying to get your attention. And those signs aren’t usually subtle. A more subtle sign of attraction is when a girl does the opposite of that. At times, it may almost be difficult to hear her because it sounds like she’s whispering. She could be shy and nervous around you because she has feelings for you. Or that she wants you to get closer to her so you can lean forward to hear her. And that’s a slick trick. Whether she’s aiming for that or not, a voice change that goes from normal to soft and sweet around you could be a subtle sign of a crush.
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2. She touches her hair, face, and clothes a lot.
An apparent sign that a girl likes you might be when she’s all over you. Maybe she’s touching your arm, your hair, your clothes, anything. This is too obvious. While looking for a subtle sign, you’re going to see whether this girl is touching her own arms, face, or clothes frequently. She might be moving a lot and be constantly shuffling. It’s another sign of being nervous around the person she likes.
3. She asks for your full name.
In olden times, we would present ourselves by our full names and where we were from. Nowadays, we usually just toss in our first name or nickname and get to chatting. You’ll only bring up a full name if you’re trying to look someone up online. That’s why you should be attentive if this girl asks for your full name. If she goes ahead and adds you on social media, it’s like the equivalent of asking someone for their phone number 20 years ago, and you wouldn’t do that unless you liked the person!
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4. She quietly consoles you and checks up on you.
A girl with an obvious crush may yell to you from across the hall, asking how you’re doing. That’s fine and all, but you really feel that sentimental connection with the other girl; The one who quietly consoles you and checks up on you when things are rough. Her delicate and private way of communicating really shows an intimate side of her that she would only share with someone that’s special to her and that could be you.
5. She says things within earshot that she wants you to hear.
A girl who likes you on the down-low might be too timid to verbalize her feelings to you. Instead, she might pull the slick move of telling you… without telling you. This little trick involves her saying something that you accidentally overhear, although she planned for you to overhear it. A great example would be her telling someone near you that she has feelings for someone, to plant the idea in your head that someone could be you.
6. Her friends stare at you.
If you’re Liam Hemsworth or Harry Styles, naturally you’ll get girls looking at you. But if her friends always seem to be doing just that, they are probably low-key teasing you. They’re basically observing you to form an opinion on their friend’s new crush. So be on the lookout for that.
7. She makes an effort to learn about your interests.
Interests in common are easy to talk about and share, but getting into a new hobby that isn’t your forte… now that’s a bit of a challenge. A girl who is open to learning about your interests, even if they’re far from hers, is someone who is really trying to get to know you.
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8. She asks you to teach her something.
When a girl asks you to teach her something, it’s obviously a plus for her to learn a new skill. What she isn’t saying is that it’s also a double plus to spend more time with you. Like also asking you to study with her when she doesn’t need to study. You know that’s a smart move right there if she does that. Another one of the subtle signs that she likes you
9. She’s close to your friends all of a sudden.
If this girl suddenly seems like she is merging with your friend group, it’s more than likely that she’s doing this to be closer to you. While your friends might be cool, this is a much more subtle move than trying to hang out with only you 24/7.
10. Her actions show that she cares.
Whether she is sharing her snacks with you, helping you out when you’re in a pickle, or simply being there when you need her, you know that this girl cares about you. Actions speak louder than words, and she doesn’t have to say it. It’s also a subtle way to care for someone that they like.
Conclusion:
Overall, some of these subtle signs overlap with a shy girl liking you because a shy girl may also do this. And if you haven’t seen my “15 signs a shy girl likes you” article, then check that out if you like. But if she’s showing a majority of these signs, you gotta admit that you’re probably intrigued by now. If so, why not get out there and get to know her more. And see where that goes. So there you have it 15 subtle signs she likes you.