10 Signs She’s Constantly Thinking About You
Have you ever had a song stuck in your head on repeat? It’s the last thing playing in your mind before you go to bed and the first thing you hear when you wake up. Well, sometimes we have songs stuck in our head, and other times we have people stuck in our head. When a person has someone stuck in their head, their thoughts vary way more than just the chorus of a song. They may be thinking about what the other person is doing, what they used to do, and – especially – imagining what they could be doing if they were together.
Eventually, these thoughts will start to affect their actions. If you’re listing to this, you might be wondering if a certain girl is constantly thinking about you. There are tons of practical ways to tell if you’re on someone’s mind, so today I’m going to give you the top 10 signs that she’s constantly thinking about you.
1. If she needs a partner, you’re always the first choice.
Even though the Discovery channel shows males as being territorial creatures, trust me, females can be just as tough when they are protecting what is theirs. I mean, have you ever seen a mama bear? The same is true for humans. This is why this girl will always fly to you when she needs a partner. When I say a partner, I mean any situation that requires two people to work together. This could be choosing a partner for a school assignment, grouping together for a work project, or even picking which of your friends to sit next to at the lunch table. No matter which situation it is, this girl has already got you on her mind. So, it’s only natural that she jumps at any chance she has to get closer to you, personally.
2. She talks to you daily, even multiple times a day.
Do you notice every time your phone buzzes or rings, there’s a good shot that it’s going to be this girl… again? She might be sending you a picture, joking around, talking about her day, or asking you a million questions about your life and interests. While it might seem excessive, this girl will be reaching out to you in caring ways, talking to you daily with respect and genuine interest. That being said, she is quick to pick up the vibe if you need space, too. The conversation never seems to die with her, because she is putting in 100% of her effort. The only reasons someone would spend so much energy and attention on you is if A) They’re your mom, or B) They can’t get you off of their mind because they like you. I’m going to hope it’s the second option.
3. Her smile is stuck to her face whenever you’re around.
The goal of most normal people is to be happy, but it’s nearly impossible to be happy every moment of the day. If every time you see this girl, she looks like she just won a million dollar, we’ve got to start wondering if she’s always a Super Smiley Susan, or if the environment has something to do with it. Most of the time the answer is going to be within the environment. And what’s the constant in this environment? It’s you.
It seems like this girl can’t control her cheesin’ any time you’re within arm’s reach. It’s very likely that her butterflies have left the stomach and fluttered right up to her face. Think about it practically; If she spends a ton of her time thinking about you and different scenarios with you, imagine the joy she’s going to feel when those thoughts can finally become a reality, as you two end up in the same place. As a huge bonus, who doesn’t love to be around happy people? This girl is a pocket full of sunshine when she’s around you.
4. She gives you personalized gifts.
Gift cards and cash are cool, but have you even received a super-thoughtful gift especially made for you? Maybe grandma knitted you a sweater, or a best friend got you something personalized. These gifts are the best because they absolutely scream: “I was thinking of YOU, and I got this especially to make YOU happy!!!” These presents will be personalized for you so you can be constantly thinking about her when you see them.
No matter what this girl is giving you, she’s going to make it special. Because you have a special place in her heart… and her mind. These gift can be anything from a materialistic buy, to some homemade cookies, to a keychain from a family trip to Mexico. The point isn’t really what she bought you, it’s the WHY. Just the thought of making you happy pushed this girl to make an effort that she didn’t have to, and that’s pretty darn cool.
5. She can’t stop staring at you.
Before we talk about this sign, it’s important to remember when I said that for most normal people it’s impossible to be smiling 24/7. Knowing that there are other facial cues which can show that you’re on this girl’s mind. Maybe you’re in a room with a lot of other people, so she can’t be a weirdo smiling for no reason from across the room. In moments like these, she is going to change her movements from her mouth to her eyes. Those pretty little eyes are going to follow you around the room or, more discreetly, take long peeks at you anytime she thinks you’re not looking. Don’t get freaked out — Think of this as a light-hearted lover’s gaze. She just can’t get enough of you.
6. You’re the first person she invites out.
When we make plans, there’s a lot of things to consider. The best activities, the best place, and – most importantly – the best people to invite. An event is only as fun as the people who attends! Now you should realize that if she’s inviting you out all the time or that she’s planning an event where you are part of it. It shouldn’t come to a surprise that she’s thinking about you. You’ve been running around her mind for a long time, so she’s trying to lessen the thoughts by spending time with you face-to-face. Less imagination and more reality, hopefully! You both have the bonus of spending time with someone cool, because let’s face it, if she’s so good at putting together fun events to enjoy together, she seems like one cool girl if you ask me.
7. She approaches you for no reason.
Sometimes our circumstances don’t allow us to spend as much time with our friends or loved ones as we would like. People are busy and it’s not always easy to coordinate schedules. This girl may be facing that fact if you two just don’t share the same social circles or activities. This is when she gets clever. All of that thinking also sparks her creativity. This girl will approach you for no reason, but she will make it seem like there’s a reason. An excuse, really. Maybe she comes up to you at work to ask a question that is self-explanatory. Or, maybe in school she approaches you to comment on something in class that really didn’t need any more discussion. No matter what it is, if this girl likes you, she’s going to get to you and try to make some connection.
8. She’s all over you on social media.
Whether you’re doing the newest challenge on TikTok, posting online, or sharing memes, you will always have at least one like on your posts. You guessed it; It’s the girl who can’t stop thinking about you. She is the first to watch your stories, respond to something you shared, or tag you in a funny meme. Social media has given us endless ways to interact with other people, and she knows exactly how to use them to interact with you. Most of this is going to give you a pretty big mood boost. Likes, laughs and light-hearted comments… what’s not to love?
9. Your mutual friends seem to talk about her a lot.
It’s becoming obvious that your name must run through this girl’s mind more than a few times in a day. Soon, though, you might be hearing her name way more than anticipated, and you’re going to notice it. Why does it seem like all of your mutual friends mention her whenever they’re with you? In this case, we can guess that they may know something you don’t. Whether by hearing it out loud, or by context clues, your friends have made the connection that this girl thinks about you and likes you. Since they know the both of you as individuals, they’ll start mentioning her more if there’s a possibility that you two could connect as more than friends. Maybe you should listen a little more carefully to the general population on this one… it could turn out to be a great idea.
10. Her acts of service show it all.
Having a hot person to stare at is cool, but when things start to get messy, physical beauty isn’t going to help out too much. We need to be focused and know how the person is on the inside. The girl who can’t stop thinking about you puts forth a lot of her time and energy into getting to know the real you. When you have a problem, be it big or small, she is the one you will be able to count on to help solve it in the best way possible. Need a shoulder to lean on? She’ll be there. This girl shows you she cares in the little ways, day to day, but has no problem dedicating her all if a bigger issue arises. And if that happens, you can say that’s a true friend who’s caring, supportive, and loyal.
Overall, having a girl in your life who can’t stop thinking about you is going to bring up way more positive things than you may expect. Think about when you have a big assignment you have to do. The more time you spend on it, the more you can improve it. The same is true with our thoughts. This girl is spending plenty of her day thinking about you, your qualities, your happiness, and how she can add more of that happiness to your life. She might have already thought that you could make her happier in the future, and she wants to give that back. Half of the time, you couldn’t find this type of dedication even if you went out looking for it.
Try to spend some more quality time with this girl and see how you two can connect. Who knows… soon you may end up being the one who can’t stop thinking about her, instead.