10 Signs A Guy Is Jealous And Likes You
So last time I made a video about 10 signs that a guy is jealous and is hiding it but I didn’t specify if it’s for romantic reasons or not. So now think of this as a follow up to that video or a part two. This time it’s for romantic reasons. For some guys, when they like someone they won’t just randomly go up to their crush and tell them because the fear of rejection is real. Plus, most guys won’t tell you that they are jealous when one day you decide to go out with another guy. But there are signs to watch out if they are jealous. So, keep an eye out for these signs because he might actually like you. Anyway, here are 10 signs a guy is jealous and likes you.
1. He becomes obsessed with you
In other words, he’s getting clingy with you. He’s texting and calling you almost every day and is always seeking your attention. He might even have a love song for you. Who knows. He goes out of his way to see you and even try to hang out with you whenever it’s possible. At this point, he’s basically looking for reassurance from you. He’s jealous and hopes you don’t go out finding another guy to hang out because he likes you.
2. He stares at you a lot
Whenever you’re in a crowded area, at school, or in a classroom and are far away from each other, you’ll find him constantly staring at you. It’s like he wants you but just don’t want to make a move. Also, it’s like another way of keeping you on check to see if you’re behaving yourself and not interacting with other people or guys. Sometimes staring at you for a long period of time can just be plain creepy slash stalker status. Jealous much? I think so! That’s one of the signs a guy is jealous and likes you.
3. He’s been acting strange lately
Most of the time when a person likes another person, they tend to do something odd. Something that’s out of the norm of how they usually behave. Granted I’ve been a victim of it multiple times because you want to grab the person’s attention. But when a guy is jealous and likes you, they can either be oddly nice to you or strangely unsettling towards you. Or he can do both and have these mood swing moments because however he’s acting, he’s not quite getting the response he wants from you so he decides to test different avenues so you’ll give him the attention that he needs. Just note that he wants you to care about him because he likes you.
4. He starts to one-up others
Let’s say if you were ever hanging out together with him in a group setting and Tom is talking about how great he is at hunting and telling these awesome stories and you’re just fascinated by Tom, he’ll eventually want to chime in too, trying to one-up Tom. Sometimes he might even lie or make something up so he can be like Tom and grab the audience’s attention and hopefully he gets your attention as well. If you notice him doing that around you, he’s probably jealous.
5. He wants to know what you are up to
Besides asking you upfront on your whereabouts, he’ll follow you on all your social media accounts and maybe even be the first one to like or comment on your post. He’ll stalk you on your social media accounts but you’ll never know if he actually does until when you decide to post stories on your Snap Chat or Instagram and he’s always the first one to view it, then you’ll know what’s really going on.
6. He tags along where ever you go
At first you might think, oh it’ll be fun having another guy in the group doing things together. But then you’ll start realizing something odd about him. He’s basically around you all the time. Even going to random events, he doesn’t give you space and just follows you. Now, you might like him following you and having him chase after you, but then there comes a point where you need your own space and that’s when you’ll start to get annoyed. When you push him, he’ll get hurt and that’s when he’ll be jealous of you. He’ll think that there’s something wrong because you use to be fine with him being around and now you don’t like it. but he’s doing it because he likes you.
7. He starts to not care anymore
At the end of the day, he has no control over who you talk to or hang out. When you’re hanging out with your guy friends or talking about other guys, he tends to fade away in the background. It’s easier for him to seem uninterested and unsupportive in the discussion than to actually speak up about it. He knows that he can’t control what you say or do. So, his best bet is to sometime ignore you.
8. He freaked out once when you were talking to a guy
Do you think the guy is way hotter or cuter than him? If you answer yes, then that’s probably why. He thinks you’re flirting with that cute guy or that hot guy is trying to flirt with you. Either way he thinks there shouldn’t be any flirting with anyone else but him. Doing so will only make him jealous because deep down inside, he likes you and he just got upset that the hot or cute guy is threatening his position. Overall, he’s just not happy when you talk to another guy.
9. He starts being rude to those who are a potential threat to him
What I mean by this is basically anyone who’s trying to steal you away from him. It could be your best friend, general friends, or that guy you use to hang out with back in elementary school. Even though they have done nothing wrong to him, he feels like you might devote more time towards them than him. If you catch him making negative remarks about the people you hang out with, you can get a hint that he’s jealous and likes you.
10. He makes you feel guilty
Now this is a rare behavior for some guys to do, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen from time to time. Some guys might get defensive and start blaming you for what’s going on with whatever relationship you guys have going on. I know it’s weird but the underlying issue here is his insecurity, which is the reason why he’s jealous. If he can’t get you, he’ll start blaming you and saying things like, “because of you this or that won’t happen we could have done this together” or something along the lines of that. Again, this is something unusual or rare but it doesn’t mean it won’t happen.
Overall, if you’ve watched this all the way up to here to see if he’s actually jealous, then you might actually have some feelings towards him or care about him. If you like him or care about him, communicate that with him to give him reassurance. If you don’t like him romantically, still communicate with him so he can slowly let things go or not but at least you are able to clear any misunderstanding that he might have. And if he actually cares about you, he’ll understand and won’t ruin a good friendship that you guys have by being jealous. So there you have it, 10 signs a guy is jealous and likes you.