She loves me, she loves me not, she loves me but is trying not to show it. You heard me right. Just like you could have a secret admirer hiding out of sight. This could be someone who you previously dated, someone who has been falling for you as a friend, or even someone who you never expected to fall in love with! Are you a Romeo, and you don’t even know it? Well if you want to know, then here are 10 signs a girl loves you but is trying not to show it.
1. She’s always available… at least if you’re the one asking.
A girl who simply likes you will try to hang out with you all the time. A girl who loves you will want to be there for you all the time. They are two very different things. The girl in love is there to support you, there to inspire you, and there to be with you with no personal benefit insight. It’s not just for fun and giggles. This is something she offers to you, and only you.
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2. She says “never mind” after she shows emotion.
This is the classic passive move that a girl will use to protect her feelings. After opening up and feeling vulnerable, she may immediately regret her decision and tell you to forget about it. Or that she catches herself from saying too much just in case you don’t have to same feelings for her. And if the feelings aren’t the same, then it might be awkward. So that’s why she’ll make a U-turn back by saying “never mind.”
3. She is extra sensitive around you.
A girl who hides her feelings is a girl who is playing games. Now, I don’t mean that in a negative way. At the beginning of relationships, it seems like everyone is trying to be the less-available one. A girl who opens up and is sensitive around you, though, is way past the initial game stage. She is most likely in the love phase and is ok being openly emotional around you. This is one of the good signs that a girl loves you but is trying not to show it.
4. Her gifts are more detailed than Picasso’s art.
A sweatshirt is nice, but a handmade sweatshirt by her with your name embroidered on the back is amazing. These are the detailed differences between a normal gift and a gift from someone who loves you. The cost doesn’t matter either, it’s the thought that counts.
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5. She shares her deepest, darkest secrets with you.
That one fear she has that is debilitating. The scary memory from her childhood. The insecurity she has never shared with her friends. These are the deep, dark secrets you’ll find out only if this girl loves you enough to share them.
6. When she’s mad at you, she’s angrier than a mama bear around her cubs.
When she loves she loves, but when he hates, oh boy she does hate. A girl in love will experience all extremes of emotions around you. If you do something that really sets her off, her reaction will be ten times worse than if an acquaintance did the same thing to her. Why? Because she cares about you ten times more!
7. She physically can’t stand not speaking to you.
If you go more than a day without speaking to this girl, you’ll be able to tell that it’s killing her. She will try to reach out to you because otherwise her mind will be running laps thinking about you. I have an article where I talk about the 10 signs she’s constantly thinking about you. If you like, you can check that out. So, if you have the same feelings for her, don’t just ignore her. That would truly be torturous for her, and sour on your part.
8. She’ll do anything as long as you’re there.
This means that she’ll do anything with you as long as you two are doing it together. It’s just comforting to be with someone you like. I mean who doesn’t? This way you can slowly build up that relationship or bond before actually confessing.
9. She gives you a second chance, a third… and a fourth.
People make mistakes. It happens even to the best of us. A good relationship has understanding and loyalty, which is something this girl is going to have a lot of if she has feelings for you. Don’t take this for granted. It doesn’t mean that she’s a doormat or that she’ll always be there no matter what mistake you make. It simply means that she’ll give you the benefit of the doubt unless you prove otherwise.
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10. She speaks your “language”.
A girl who has feelings for you will be able to vibe with you in a way that no one else does. You two seem to understand each other in a unique way. To simply put, she gets you, and you get her. And the only thing that’s probably keeping herself from telling you her feeling is her shyness. I mean, if you have known her for a long time, it’s probably about time you should let her know.
Conclusion:
Overall, a girl could love you from a meter away or a hundred miles away. She might be clinging on to old feelings or dealing with new ones she never expected. What these situations may all have in common is that you can love someone and not let the other person know. If you have a hunch that a girl in your life is doing just that, evaluate your situation and your feelings. Feelings like that are big and you could turn it into something more. So there you have it, 10 signs a girl loves you but is trying not to show it.