10 Signs A Girl Likes You But Is Trying Not To Show It
So, let say you met this girl… or not and you’re like me staring at your crush for the past hour in class. But that’s another story. Anyway, for some reason now you have this gut feeling that she likes you or that you know that she does but is trying her best not to show it. Even though she’s trying to hide it there are signs that you can spot to get a sense if she does like you or not. So here are 10 signs a girl likes you but is trying not to show it.
1. She’s a good listener
This is a subtle way to not show it if a girl likes you. But no matter how subtle or low key it is, you can still get a hint or a sign that she does. For instance, have a normal conversation and share some information about yourself. Then give it some time like a few weeks or a few months or so and test her by asking her a few questions about yourself to see if she can recall the details about you. But obviously don’t make it too obvious, make it feel casual. If she can remember the details about you, then she probably has a crush on you or she just has a really good memory.
2. She asks for your help
Super subtle but hey she may be genuinely stuck on a problem and need someone to help. Be on the lookout if she does this a lot. She can’t just simply ask for a date because of course, that’s being too obvious so why not ask for help. This way if you do reject her, it’s not that bad. And if you do help her, it’s like going on a mini-date together or a pre-date if you want to call it that. Getting together and working together to solve a problem and bonding over that problem is pretty hot and intense for a pre-date already. Just imagine getting the real deal? Haha
3. Her tone of voice changes
This is a tricky one. First you would need to observe how she is talking or interacting with her friends or people in general. When you get a general idea of that, go in and start having a conversation with her and see if her tone of voice changes with you. It’s generally sweeter and sounds lovelier when she’s talking to the person that she likes.
4. Look out for her body language
She’s trying not to show it but her body already betrayed her. Look to see if she’s constantly staring at you because you’re basically eye candy. Another one to look out for is that if she’s mirroring or mimicking you when you’re hanging out together, it shows interest and connection. Oh yeah, a subtle one would be that if her feet or shoulders are positioned towards you. It shows that she’s paying attention to you and that you’re just that much more captivating to look at. Last but not least, be on the lookout if she’s fiddling with her hair or jewelry, it could show that she’s nervous or that she’s really into you and trying to keep herself distracted so she doesn’t show other obvious body language signs like ummm…touching you.
5. Her friends know almost everything about you
Of course, she won’t show it to you but she will go on and on about you with her friends. This might sound weird but it happens. The friend will eventually know everything about you and you probably don’t know a thing about them. And in some cases, they might even tease you both about being together. She’s trying not to show it but in this case, her friends already betrayed her. That’s one of the common signs a girl likes you but is trying not to show it.
6. She’s shy
Shy girls are probably like the best at hiding their feelings. With these girls, you can’t be 100% sure but there’s one way to tell. Pay attention to how she behaves towards you. If she acts normal and talkative with others but when you’re around she goes stealth on you, that’s a good sign to look out. She might be nervous around you and trying not to make a fool out of herself. So, the best way to not overreact is underreact and that is to just be quiet and pretend things are all right. This way she simply doesn’t show you anything, but after watching this you already know there’s something fishy going on when she’s shy and quiet around you.
7. She’s jealous of other girls
She’s not going to just randomly go up to you and tell you, “I’m jealous.” She’s just going to hide it from you and say nothing. And of course, she won’t even bother talking to the other girls because they are apparently stealing all your time away from her. You both could be together talking, but you’re playing. She’s going to be jealous of other girls and basically pronounce them to be dead. So be on the lookout for her and the girls you’ve been talking to. If they got beef with each other or simply not talking to them at all, then you know what’s really going on. She likes you.
8. She totally agrees with you
You think orange is the new black? She probably thinks so too. It’s a good sign when she agrees with you on a lot of your discussions, especially on important subjects. People in general like spending time with those who are similar so by doing this, the likely hood of you being close or hanging out with her will be high. Which is basically the similarity principle. Those who are similar will be seen belonging together. So maybe she’s not fully ready to show her feelings, but she’s going to take it slow and see if you want to perhaps hang out more, with her.
9. She’s awkward around you
You know those times when you’re in an awkward situation, you can’t really describe it but you just know and feel it’s awkward. For her, she could be extremely shy or extremely obnoxious or flat out just weird and you’ll know. Sometimes when a person likes another person that’s close by, they can’t keep their cool and their mind just goes out the window and they can’t pull themselves together. If that’s the case, she’s totally into you.
10. She’ll say yes if you ask her out
For some reason, some girls will not go out of their way to ask another person out. I don’t know why but that’s just the nature of things. But if you ask her out, she’ll be willing to go out with you. Okay when I say go out, I don’t mean like on a date or anything, I mean it can be but it could be anything. It could be just hanging out with a group of friends or perhaps going to formal or homecoming games together or as a group. Who knows, but what you do know is that if you do ask her out, she’ll be down like Charlie Brown. And if she is saying, “yes” like almost every time, it’s a strong sign that she likes you.
Conclusion:
Overall, these are just some insight that she might be holding back her feelings because she might be scare to come forth to you and tell you anything because the fear of getting rejected hurts more than just not knowing. If you end up checking most of these signs off the list, then it’s safe to say that she’s interested in you. If you’re interested in the girl and you feel like they’re also interested in you, as a kind reader, please ask her out or at least attempt to be friends first and then do so. Then your success rate would be a little bit higher. So, take the risk and the reward might be worth it at the end. Anyway, if you want to share some of your stories, let me know down below. I do read all of them because I have nothing better to do. So that’s 10 signs a girl likes you but is trying not to show it.
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