If you’re interested in chatting up the shortie at school, work, or down the block, you might think you can flirt up a storm without any preparation. Maybe you can, but why have a 3-star flirtatious encounter when, instead, you can have a 5-star one with some of the 10 best flirting questions to ask a girl. These aren’t your run-of-the-mill “You come here often?” pickup lines. They’re a little cheesy, a tidbit funny, and a whole lot of flirty. Try out a few and watch the sparks and smiles fly.
1. What are you most attracted to in a guy?
I should preface by saying that some of these questions, this one included, can’t just be said to someone out of the blue. You’ll have a better experience if you start with something a little more general, like a compliment or introducing yourself. Then, once she gives you the green light to have more conversation, you can ramp up the flirting and drop this bomb. Asking her what she’s most attracted to in a guy will give two things. First, it’s going to give her the opportunity to flirt back by mentioning a quality or characteristic that you have. Second, it’s going to give you more information about what things she likes so you can try and exhibit those same things.
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2. What’s your dream date?
This flirting question is a bit more low-key, in a cute way. You’re going to see her face light up as she tells you about a dream date that she has thought about a million times. This is the perfect leeway to ask her out. You don’t have to promise her the dream date, of course, but you have a heck of a good start on planning a date she’ll never forget.
3. Are you seeing anyone?
This is an oldie but goodie, as they say. It’s blunt and to the point, because you’re straight-up asking her if she’s available or not. At the same time, it counts as flirting because you would only ask this question if you were interested in her yourself. She gets the point, you get the point, and everybody walks away with some sort of confirmation.
4. What kind of things do you fall for in a guy?
This question specifically asks about how she is as a romantic. Does she love the cute stuff or prefer when a guy is serious and direct? Her answer to this is going to lead you to the best way of flirting with her. Pay special attention to whether she focuses on words – like being complimented, gifts, quality time together, or helpful actions. This could give you insight into what her love language is.
5. Do you always look so beautiful?
Save the generic compliments for another time and hit her with a question about her overall beauty. She’s sure to gush, blush, and smile over it.
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6. When do you think we’ll get married?
This is a funny flirty question because any girl will know you’re joking but also flirting. It’s a great way to say, “I like you” without actually saying it, while also making her laugh. Laughter isn’t just the best medicine; humor is one of the main qualities that girls look for in guys, and you’re showing it right away!
7. How do you know when someone’s really into you?
This playful question shows that you’re curious if she’s into you. Whatever she says is going to be what you should look out for. For example, if she says, “When they smile around you all the time,” and says it with a continuous smile, she’s obviously into you!
8. Who should make the first move, the guy or the girl?
This is a fun question because it also sets up the scene for how you two will move forward. If she says the guy should make the first move, smiles, and stays near you, that’s both verbal and body language showing that she’s interested in your next move. If she says the girl should make the first move, take it as a sign and step back to make sure she’s feeling you.
9. Did you feel that?
Feel what? The spark! Ok, ok, I know this one is cheesy, but that’s what makes it good. There are plenty of girls out there who love a good cheeseball – the guy, not the puffy snack unless you’re looking like a snack! Anyway, use this one for a guaranteed giggle and see what she replies.
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10. If I had to do whatever you wanted for a day, what would you make me do?
Finally, we saved our seductive flirty question for last. This one is fun because she’s going to either go the sexy route or the comedian one. Either way, you’ll get a good glimpse at her personality and enjoy the answer.
Conclusion:
Ok, Rico Sauvé, it’s time to use some of these bad boys on the girl that’s been stuck on your mind. If you know her a bit, you’ll know which questions she’ll appreciate most or which ones will make her smile, so choose wisely. I also don’t suggest using more than two in one conversation so that you don’t seem too pushy or overbearing. So, are you a flirty questions kind of guy? Or do you prefer to keep it old-school and chat about day-to-day topics? Let us know in the comments! So there you have it, 10 best flirting questions to ask a girl.